by gaviao » Fri Feb 04, 2022 12:52 pm
I share a recent experience: During the break of just over two years that I had with my wife, I had a girlfriend for 8 months. She was very conservative, to the point that she had never worn a bikini, let alone practiced topless or nudism, but she knew of my fondness for these places and she wanted to accompany me.
As preparation, in August 2020 I took her to a small resort, clothing optional but “vanilla” in all other aspects; I didn't even give her the option of packing a bathing suit; she loved the experience.
So I thought she was ready for Desire, where we went in November, for three nights only. Being naked was no longer a challenge, but doing some sexual activities in public cost her a little more. The second day we had sex in the jacuzzi beds and at night in the playroom. At dawn on the last day she told me that she would have liked to do some soft swinging… but it was too late. So we came back for the 29th of January, during the ISM, again only for three nights. The difference is that that time we were already on defined objectives and we enjoyed it to the fullest.
So my recommendation for newbies is that you book at least 4 nights, and above all that they are aware that time flies by in Desire and that the opportunity that comes your way one day may not come again.