by Timandbarb » Wed Mar 02, 2022 5:13 pm
We will be on our third trip during the first week in May.
First, I’d encourage you to participate in theme nights.
It really does add to the fun and makes it more memorable, by far.
For me, the theme nights are probably the highlight of the week.
More than that, picking out the clothes, ordering them, getting them, and planning how you’ll wear them is really sexy for a couple. It builds anticipation for the trip, and the modeling sessions are fun.
And if it’s your first time, it’s good to “rehearse” the preparations. You may feel a bit intimidated by the atmosphere at first, but having a plan for some of the week (especially the first theme night or two) might make it easier to get into the Pearl groove.
And that’s all before you get there!
As a man, I like to dress to the theme in a confident and sexy way.
Fetish night might mean tight dark jeans and a leather shirt, for example.
Sensual night might be silk pajamas.
Tropical night might be a nice pair of dress slacks and a tropical pattern silk shirt.
Accessories, of course!
So for me, I like to dress so that I feel comfortable and sexy, and I feel that I (we) are engaged in the theme of the party.
That being said, some guys will wear a thong underwear and flip-flops, and that’s okay. Just not my style.
The ladies (including my wife, thankfully) will tend to dress a bit racier than the men, and I think your question is partially to this point. Just because your lady is wearing a see-through body suit and heels, it doesn’t mean you need to wear the same (but you could). Please, just don’t show up in the cotton khakis and golf shirt that you wore on the plane.
So, dig into the theme nights. Have fun. Feel good about yourself and have a great time.