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This might be unique to ask. But I have only been with my wife. We enjoy being naked around others and are accepting and intrigued by all. We had an erotic massage last time we went. This was a first for both us and we really enjoyed it. Slightly embarrassing to ask but how do you prevent cumming early? Any advise is appreciated.

By naming the 1927 NY Yankees baseball team in alphabetical reverse order in your head.




Or,..don’t worry about it. It’s supposed to be enjoyable.

I’m not a doctor, and this is not medical advice.

You may consider looking into Dextromethorphan, which is most commonly used as a cough suppressant. However a primary and useful side effect of Dextromethorphan is its ability to delay ejaculation. There are legitimate, real telemedicine companies with real doctors that can prescribe Dextro; just a few Google searches away. I hope this helps.

AHC2007 wrote:This might be unique to ask. But I have only been with my wife. We enjoy being naked around others and are accepting and intrigued by all. We had an erotic massage last time we went. This was a first for both us and we really enjoyed it. Slightly embarrassing to ask but how do you prevent cumming early? Any advise is appreciated.

By having an active and healthy sex life.

SouthCarolinaCpl wrote:By naming the 1927 NY Yankees baseball team in alphabetical reverse order in your head.




Or,..don’t worry about it. It’s supposed to be enjoyable.

As an odd bit of luck, it seems like the less you worry about it, the longer things last. Totally get worrying about it though. Don't think that is unusual at all. Love SouthCarolinaCpl's advice.

Happy Monday, the question that hasn't been asked was whether or not he finished quickly while he was being massaged or as soon as they pushed the tables together? I like to focus on my Mrs receiving her massage and pay less attention to me being massaged. That way I don't really think about my portion. Also, maybe get a little pre massage action before you go to the massage as I'm pretty sure it would be easy enough to "wake up" again with someone touching you in which case you would last longer. I really enjoy the massage after they push the tables together and they continue giving the massage while you are with your partner. You could even just ask them to avoid your area during the massage or even just ask them to slow down? Have a few drinks before and relax and enjoy ....If nothing else works think of your grandma lol but then again you might be traumatized from that

Is this really a problem? Life's short, cum quick!