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Hi all,

We are headed to Pearl for our first ever Desire experience Monday and tonight the topic of my wife's attire for dinner and theme nights has her concerned. Rather than worry needlessly, I figured we would come to the best source of information....you all

1. One of her theme night outfits is essentially topless (not sure which one because they are all gonna be a surprise) and she just read that you "must be fully clothed in the disco". Does that apply to the theme night outfits?

2. A couple of her dinner outfits are sheer. They are tasteful and sexy but will show her amazing body in a seductive way (also going to be a surprise each night). She plans to wear something sexy but less revealing for dinner at Pearl but wants to have fun the other nights. Most nights out for us, she is wearing outfits that require boob tape so this isn't that adventurous for her but the option to wear something sheer with nothing under it would add a twist to things.

Any feedback/suggestions are greatly appreciated.

Scrolled a little farther down and found the answers. Hopefully see some of you next week

B and B wrote:Hi all,

We are headed to Pearl for our first ever Desire experience Monday and tonight the topic of my wife's attire for dinner and theme nights has her concerned. Rather than worry needlessly, I figured we would come to the best source of information....you all

1. One of her theme night outfits is essentially topless (not sure which one because they are all gonna be a surprise) and she just read that you "must be fully clothed in the disco". Does that apply to the theme night outfits?

2. A couple of her dinner outfits are sheer. They are tasteful and sexy but will show her amazing body in a seductive way (also going to be a surprise each night). She plans to wear something sexy but less revealing for dinner at Pearl but wants to have fun the other nights. Most nights out for us, she is wearing outfits that require boob tape so this isn't that adventurous for her but the option to wear something sheer with nothing under it would add a twist to things.

Any feedback/suggestions are greatly appreciated.

She will fit right in with the risqué outfits worn by others. Enjoy!

Strange. The disco has never had that rule. People are in all stages of "costume and undress" and many leave naked...

thank you...we are looking forward to the experience

We were there 2 weeks ago and the disco rule was not in place.

I think they write these ‘rules’ down so they are covered if someone complains. But the reality is that they are seldom if ever enforced in most cases, unless the perpetrators get completely outrageous to the point of offensive. We once saw the two people at the table next to us in the restaurant have open oral sex, and the waiters just continued to work around them and serve as if it was completely normal. Nudity in the disco, that’s almost as normal as dancing in the disco at Desire!
I think they secretly want people to do these things as it adds to the resort mystique.

Dinner is always sexy nightclub dress. We saw two newbie couples turned away from Sukie last week for shorts and T. In all of our 25+ stays, I have NEVER seen any sexual activity at dinner! That is a first! Everything is very romantic and well put together in the Restaurants for dinner, never sex going on. The disco gets rowdy and people are in all stages of dress and undress....

Yes, it was the only time we have seen it as well. And the wife was a little offended by it, she said there are so many opportunities to have sex here in public view that don’t bother anyone, surely they don't need to be doing this here. It seems quite OTT.
But the real surprise was that no-one on staff or security did anything. So it carried on for about 20 minutes. At one point the waiter brought their appetizers to the table, put them on the table, let them know they were there, then just left them to carry on. Pretty amazing.

Mrs. NoKidClub “may or may not have” fallen off her bar stool at Suki while “tasting” one of her fellow playmates at the hibachi station.

I'm just popping a little late here but the OP said that they read that nudity isn't allowed in the disco. We have never seen anyone prevented from getting naked in the disco at either DP or DRM. Maybe they were talking about no nudity in the lobby?