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Hi,
We are early 40s couple arriving mid September first time to Pearl or any clothing optional resort for that matter.
We have some questions that we would love to get answers to:
1. What do you wear for breakfast/lunch, or are those no clothing venues?
2. Has anyone done erotic massage recently and if so what was your experience?
3. We have never done any swapping and are completely new to place like, and wonder if there
in fact is no pressure within the resort for swapping or if you come there you should be open to all things erotic?
4. Any other information that you may have for first timers would be wonderful!
Thanks everyone!

Breakfast and lunch a coverup for her, bathing suit and shirt for him. And I use the term coverup very loosely.
Haven’t done the massage.
There is no pressure to do anything. You might get asked. No is a very accepted word.
Bring a yeti type mug to keep drinks cold.

Mike

We just came back from our first trip.

For breakfast and lunch - a simple bathing suit and shirt for guys and any other sort of cover-up for women is fine. By any sort of cover-up, I mean it can even be completely sheer. As long as she wears something.

We are not in the lifestyle, and there was zero pressure to do anything. A few people asked, a few others had assumed we were just by being there but everyone was very polite about it. We made some great friends who are in LS so it's not like we were treated differently just because we were not!

We did the erotic massage, as well as 3 other couples we made friends with and we all had the same conclusion... it was incredible! Honestly one of the best parts of the entire trip. It's expensive, but definitely worth it. Let me know if you want more details.

Breakfast and lunch are very relaxed and no pressures .Shorts or swim suite with T shirt and loose coverup for her. Dinner man is expected to wear slacks and shoes
Been coming for roughly 10 years and been a long time since had a massage .Kind of pricy but very relaxing.
Never had any issues about not being in the life style but have seen many things that are a new experience you will talk about for a long time. Never any pressure of any kind to do something that you are not comfortable with.
Bring a large drink cup so you will not have to fill as often .Also bring sunscreen and a hat.
Pack your suits and sunscreen in a small loose beach bag so if your room is not ready when you get to the resort you can go to the spa and change into your suits to start your relaxation.
We arrive on 9-25 for 5 days of sun and fun and relaxation. Hope to possibly see you there.

DesireMe wrote:Hi,
We are early 40s couple arriving mid September first time to Pearl or any clothing optional resort for that matter.
We have some questions that we would love to get answers to:
1. What do you wear for breakfast/lunch, or are those no clothing venues?
2. Has anyone done erotic massage recently and if so what was your experience?
3. We have never done any swapping and are completely new to place like, and wonder if there
in fact is no pressure within the resort for swapping or if you come there you should be open to all things erotic?
4. Any other information that you may have for first timers would be wonderful!
Thanks everyone!

1. see other replies
2. Yes, and loved it (both of us)
3. being open to it yes, just because it's fun to be, and keep a little mystery, even if you're not going to - IMO. but there is absolutely no pressure whatsoever, and we've had a blast any time we've gone, and never done anything like it. I like to say "no ...but, hey, you never know"

Thank you so much! This is very helpful!