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Morning All,
So my wife and I are heading to our first visit. We are not in the LS but have friends who are.
What has my wife worried is that she recently had breastcancer a double masectomy and reconstruction.
With that she lost her nipples .
She's got some stick on ones and tattoos are planend later in the year but she's very worried about showing off her scars to the world.
Any advice from the community and other ladies who have been through simialr would be great for her to here .
Thank you

Wouldn’t be the first, second, or even third time I’ve seen it there. Some ladies just wore nothing, some wore pasties over the nipple area but honestly nobody will be bothered. Celebrate the win and go!

Seen several ladies on vacation who had such "battle scars". Some had reconstructed breasts, at least a couple did not. One lady had what we thought was the perfect Tshirt:

"Of course they're fake! My real ones tried to kill me!"

I think most (at least many) of us have some battle scars from life. At Desire they are often a lot more visible.

I believe some of us go there to celebrate the victory!

We've seen single mastectomies with reconstruction, single with "partial" reconstruction, single with no reconstruction, double mastectomies with no reconstruction, double with full reconstruction, some with tattooed nipples, some with no nipples. We've seen completely bare with no covering at all, full cover pasties, stick-on nipple sparkle jewelry, and skimpy bikini tops.

My advice: She should do whatever will make her comfortable. Wear a top one day. Try out some pasties for a while. Change back if she doesn't like them. Go bare if she wants. Rotate through 10 different versions of pasties or sparkle stick-ons. Literally, she should do whatever she feels like doing. No one will judge. No one will criticize.

Thank you folks I’ll be sharing all this great information
Really appreciate you taking the time to help some strangers