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My wife and I are going to Pearl in April 2013. We are Newbies. The plans are for my wife to play with other couples or with just the wives,and I will only watch. How is the best way to let other couples know this and will there be opportunities for us to explore this fantasy.

Hi Zackwater, It's been my experience that they haven’t installed a button next to the hot hub where you can make this just happen on demand yet ...
But this Fantasy (not talking about the button now) could happen based on both your abilities to mix it with other couples who have similar interests.

It also wouldn’t hurt to get involved in some of the pool / hot tub / night club group games.
Ultimately though I find it comes down to the females, who really control what’s going to happen or not happen at Desire.

Yep the girls run the show!

I think I get the point. The wife will be the boss. I just looking forward to not being at work!

Simple: find a couple you click with; then have a frank and honest conversation about it.

Desert Dwellers wrote:Simple: find a couple you click with; then have a frank and honest conversation about it.

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A couple of observations we made (as newbies). First, the women are always in charge of everything! Second, couples you meet will let you know in different ways (most directly but not all) what is acceptable. Third, talk with your partner about “possibilities” before hand and do NOT “count” on anything. Just have fun.

see you there. we arrive on the 15th and will warm the place up for the both of you?