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Questions from First timers, input appreciated!

Posted:
Thu Jan 10, 2013 6:12 pm
by neatfeet
We won a company sales trip and I have a budget to go wherever we want! We decided to make this our first clothing optional vacation, and considered Jamaica before gravitating to Desire Pearl. We told our Travel Agent that we wanted the best quality all-inclusive that our budget can support, and she reccommended Pearl.
We are not prudes and will enjoy the clothing optional beach and pool, and meeting new couples. We are probably not going to part-take in any 'lifestyle" activities, and want to make sure that people like us will fit in, have fun and not be overwhelmed by public displays. Hope to use the hot tub (during the day) and shedding our inhibitions! We also hope that the food is as good as advertised. We are also intrigued by Claudia and would like to hear anyone's experience there! In short, we are regular folks who look forward to sun, no clothing and relaxation, not hard core stuff. We would welcome any input.
Thanks!
D & M
Re: Questions from First timers, input appreciated!

Posted:
Fri Jan 11, 2013 7:39 am
by singlemalt
We were first timers last month (Dec) and can state that you have made a great choice. Very attractive resort. We met a lot of great people, and enjoyed frolicking on that fine line between classy and sexy!
Re: Questions from First timers, input appreciated!

Posted:
Fri Jan 11, 2013 11:26 am
by neatfeet
Thanks for the input, we are excited!!
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Posted:
Fri Jan 11, 2013 12:37 pm
by neatfeet
Singlemalt, can you send us any details, tips, fun suggestions in a private message?
Thanks!
D & M
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Posted:
Sat Jan 12, 2013 9:14 am
by DD TEASE
We stayed at RM last year for the first time and it was great. Pearl haden't been open too long but we took a tour and will stay there the next time we go. I would highly reccomend Claudia, we also had resort massage it was great also.
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Sat Jan 12, 2013 10:14 am
by ZigMoGin
Hey, we are going in May as "Newbies" ourselves. We too aren't lifestylers. From what I've learned so far, the lifestylers that will possibly be there are on the norm, a great, friendly, non-pushy group. We too aren't prude, and just looking forward to taking in the classy, but exotic vibe, at a clothing-optional, sexy resort. May can't get her soon enough for us!!

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Posted:
Sat Jan 12, 2013 10:28 am
by neatfeet
Agreed! We have to wait until December but that gives us time to get in shape! Please let us hear from you after your trip!
D & M
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Sat Jan 12, 2013 11:04 am
by sundaddy
We were first timers last August and it was amazing! We aren't lifestylers either but enjoy watching and being watched so felt we fit in perfectly. We've been going to topless resorts for years so it was time to I'm sure there were lifestyle couples there but honestly we weren't approached and didn't see it openly except in the hot tub and that was quite entertaining since our room was directly over the hot tub and we had fun watching : )) We were open to a soft swap however we didn't meet anyone we were both attracted to enough to try it. We didn't try Claudia but the couples sensual massage in the spa was amazing...I can't imagine how it could have been any better! I promise you won't be disappointed and it will be the most fun you've ever had on a vacation. Oh, don't forget to participate in the theme nights! It was amazing dancing in a see thru dress and another night I had another female there undress me on the dance floor..I loved it and so did my husband! The music was great and most nights we shut down the club. The food was great too...we ate really healthy and thought they had great choices for healthy meals. We're planning a trip now for July this year! Can't wait : ))
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Posted:
Sat Jan 12, 2013 2:32 pm
by neatfeet
Great review, thanks!

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Posted:
Thu Jan 17, 2013 12:00 pm
by neatfeet
Wife a little nervous about baring all for the first time! Any recent newbies have any tips advice, stories of their own?
Thanks!
Re: Questions from First timers, input appreciated!

Posted:
Thu Jan 17, 2013 8:54 pm
by Betterforyou747
No worries, wife started the week fully clothed and by the last day everything was off!
The first day and I had it all off, she went bottomless by Thursday . Nobody cares and you will soon feel the odd one once you realize your the only one clothed. Lol!
In all honesty whether you keep it on or take it off the eye contact remains the same. Your made to feel comfortable throughout your stay.
Hope tis helps and you can always pm me for more

Was there jan 05-12
Betterforyou747
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Posted:
Fri Jan 18, 2013 2:08 pm
by neatfeet
Thanks! Feel free to pm me if you have more details!!
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Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2013 3:04 am
by miranda
You might be disappointed if you wait til the last day to 'bare it all'. Don't be shy - we all were at one time - but 'once you go nude you never go prude'.

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Posted:
Fri Feb 01, 2013 3:54 pm
by candtdesire07
You will fit in just fine.
We highly recommend Claudia if it's your first time

Just go with the flow & you will make friends for life.
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Posted:
Fri Feb 01, 2013 8:38 pm
by Screamincheetah
Claudia?