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So it's pretty clear that the women can dress about however they want to disco theme activities, including nothing more than high-heel shoes or a scarf, but can men do the same thing? Like dress shirt and no pants? Bow tie? Bow tie on ===>? Sheer pants or jockey shorts? Open front shorts? Completely naked? Do I have to wait till people are more wasted?

We've only been there once for a few days. The least we saw on a man in the disco was g-string only.

It was pretty crazy the week we were there but didn't see any men naked in the club...a couple stripped for the Chippendale contest but dressed afterward. My husband stripped down to shorts one night but that was about it. Not saying they can't but we just didn't see it.

From the Mrs - Wow, you sure sound like a live wire. Just the people I enjoy around Desire. When are you going The more you want to dress, or undress, the more power to you! Personally, I really appreciate those men who get involved in the themes and dress up etc. in more than just shirt and pants. All I can say is don't feel conspicuous Desire is a place to make those fantasies real. Have I seen men in G-strings at Desire, well yes. Not many, but they were appreciated. And did I like taking my man out dancing in his leather thong ..... well

From the Mr - go for it, I did. I was not the only one, there were a few of us. And a few men did tell me they wished they had the guts. Maybe you can be the trend setter.

My last experience with C/O was at Hidden Beach, and naked at the disco was not unusual. Unbuttoned Hawaiian shirt was dress-up. People seemed to like me.

We are looking at booking our first time at Pearl for Memorial Day (May 25-June 1). The three times we've been to RM, my husband dressed up for the theme nights and I LOVED IT! Some other men did, many didn't but I think all the women loved seeing the men who went with the themes. He did boxers with a tux on them and a bowtie for black tie night there, leather boxers for leather and lace night, sexy black silk PJs for another night, etc. I found it a huge turn-on and we are definitely BOTH planning our outfits for the Pearl trip. Why not? It's like sexy dress-up play every night there!!

Absolutely, go for it ! I (the guy) have worn thongs, g-strings, etc. to the disco, and I can assure you that most of the women were highly appreciative. In our experience it is usually less than say 30% of the men that might dress up(down) for the themes, but then those of us who do end up hanging somewhat together so you kind of feel like everyone else is as well. Everything is acceptable at Desire !