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Seems to be the taboo question and a subject everyone tap dances or beats around the bush.

So we thought we would take the opportunity to open the question and see the responses and where we stand.
We consider ourselves an attractive 40's couple who have been active fun Nudists for over 10 yrs that started with the Couples resorts in Jamaica then graduated up to the Nudist Resorts and from some amazing experiences at those resorts to the Lifestyle Resorts.
We would consider ourselves the fun couple next door that are not swingers, it's something we only enjoy on vacation as we become very lifestyle friendly in the right situation with another fun couple with great personalities, chemistry and attraction.

We're the couple who loves to run naked on vacation by day openly and packs very lite.
The couple who loves the sexual and sensual attitude, attire and themes at night of which 90% of our pack up is dedicated too and depending on the situation a very naughty naked couple by midnight with friends behind closed doors not real PDA in public with others ,ourselves yes but not with others.
A couple who is very open sexually and has enjoyed the softer side of swinging in the past and very much open to pretty much anything short of full swap as it's not for us. The girls having fun with the guys and the guys having fun with the girls all naked same room absolutely and oh yeah the girls have fun together with or without the guys if they want to explore as she has experienced it and loves it both giving and receiving the soft touches and kisses of another woman.

We have no expectations when on vacation but to get naked and have fun yet we have no reservations either with the right personality,chemistry and attraction of another couple and just a note this is a discussion the ladies have & a decision they make it's not about the guys I just consider myself so very lucky to have a wonderful open loving wife who enjoys being naked and willing to explore fun together with another couple from time to time when she feels it's right and the girls agree.
Lets see if this opens a conversation please contribute

We will be experiencing a clothing optional/lifestyle friendly resort for the first time 5/23-28. We are not swingers but decided to kick things up a notch and see if we like it. I'm sure we will do the naked part, at least hubby will, lol. Theme outfits have been purchased and hubby will also participate and/or at least dress nicely depending on the theme. I'm sure we will visit the hot tub each night as well. Hubby wants to try PDA/PDS in the playroom and hot tub beds. We'll see.......... From reading the posts on this site, it seems reluctant people tend to loosen up quite a bit once they are there. Hope so!

Bamacpl:

I really hope that we follow the same path during our December visit, and meet a couple like yourselves!

Bama couple you have described my wife and I to a T. Mid forties here as well (1969 him, 1964 her). Only experiment in the lifestlye when on vacation. We also started our nudist journey at Couples Ocho Rios then Couples San Souci about 8 yrs ago. In 2011 we made the jump to Desire RM and are now hooked. We are trying Pearl for our first time in Nov this year.

As you stated above the ladies can experiment and play all they want and pretty much lead the show. We have only done soft swap, not sure if well ever go beyond that or not, but it isn't 100% out of the question. I like you am one of the luckiest men alive to have a wife who actually syggested we go to pearl for out 20th anniversary.