by bandc2013 » Fri Oct 18, 2013 7:33 am
I am curious, we will be at Desire Pearl in December, and we are "Newbies" to all this! Never to a "Clothing Optional" Resort or Never done anything "Lifestyle" related...... Wife and I are (she) 40 and (him) 44, we are the essence of 3 kids and "real life" couple, that with kids and careers well our bodies have paid the price.....we're not obese, but both have time tested battle scars, (her) 3 kids...and body carries scars of life, and (he) carries belly like a badge of honor! We're both somewhat self conscious about our weight, but comfortable in ourselves that we are real people, so to my question we are a little concerned looking at Desire's website all the photos have Hot-Hardbodies in all the photos; are we gonna be the "Fat Fatties" at the party and treated -like we have the plague? Or are most people pretty open minded and non-judgmental? Just Curious. We don't see it as a handicap, and really have never cared what others think, however we've also never been Naked around others, we each think the other is hot and sexy however we're biased! Your thoughts?