Funtimes111 wrote:We just got back from our trip. To Pearl restaurant our group wore shoes, dress slacks or nice jeans with a Short sleeved vneck or nice tshirt or short sleeve collar shirt. Anyone who thinks a long sleeve shirt is better or jeans are not appropriate is either an elder statesman or not in touch with modern style. There is nothing wrong with sleeves but it is not better then a nice short sleeve shirt. It all depends on your look. I agree that the men should be stylish but the points in the previous post don't distinguish that. Sandals and shorts are prohibited. I dressed the same for the other spots but shorts and sandals are allowed.
Maybe I (Mrs. heavyG) should have been clearer - Yes short sleeve shirts and jeans can be stylish as can a wide range of clothing, suits are not always required nor are they always stylish either. My gripe is about the guys who show up for dinner (in the sit down restaurant) or to the club wearing the same worn out grubby jeans and cheap ass stained T shirt or give away poly golf shirt with the insurance company logo that sponsored the golf tournament… In other words I saw guys so far from stylish, they could have been at the Home Depot on Saturday morning picking up supplies to do some plumbing in the basement, while their wives /partners were dressed to the nines. Then these guys boasted about 'never dressing up'.
Style is definitely a personal taste, and is different for everyone, just stating what I saw, and what I prefer.
Mrs. G.
We are Hedonism 11/ Desire Cabo refugees; so maybe that explains our point of view. My husband will endure long pants and closed toe shoes if another couple invites us to a restaurant where this is required but the whole reason we go on vacation is to GET NAKED !!!!! Interesting contradiction that the same people who love being naked all day and late in the evening want to put on a jacket and a tie, dress pants, socks and shoes. The most unsexy image I personally can imagine is a man wearing socks, dress shoes, long pants and a jacket in the tropics. Good thing its like a meat locker in the Pearl restaurant; men in suits dripping with sweat are in my opinion, not sexually appealing. Plus I get hot flashes so frosty air conditioning is cool with me too even if I am wearing a skimpy sundress !! Don't get me wrong; I like wearing full length glamorous evening gowns as well and for funerals and weddings I totally expect my man to wear a suit. However, my husband is a truck driver and I personally think truck drivers are far more sexy than men who wear suits to work. I don't need a 'sugar daddy' I kind of like being a 'Sugar Momma' from time to time ... Sooo it is far more complex than simply saying a man dressed down with a women dressed up is disrespectful to the woman. It took me several years of Naked Vacations to get my husband to dress up with me for theme night in a matching tutu and his AC/DC pajamas and pirate long hair. He loved it so much he insisted on dressing like this every night in the disco; never mind the actual theme. 
My dad who was a minister hated dressing up and he was forced to in front of the congregation every Sunday. He used to call it 'putting on the monkey suit and the dog collar'. So the men that go to all that trouble should have no difficulty dressing in theme to compliment their wives too, every night.
..well....you get what you pay for...or don't pay for...(OUCH!!) 
