Hello everyone....
We are Jamie and Chris,
First off, we are very impressed by the kindness and help in this forum.
We are planning a new year’s eve/week trip to Desire Pearl. We have made reservations at Pearl but we’re having a difficult time deciding on Pearl for sure over Riviera Maya. We don’t really want to split the trip and have to move mid-week. We are f33 and m43, we hear that Pearl is an older crowd?(we actually prefer couples in their mid 30's to 50’s...age appropriate for us.... and ok, Jamie likes em older...lol). We have also heard that there is somewhat less "nightlife/enthusiasm" at Pearl compared to the original resort. We understand that Pearl is nicer, we just don't want to trade the novelty of what Desire is all about for the larger pool, bigger hot tub and some fancy beach beds.....I guess our questions are as follows:
1. Is desire pearl mostly lifestyle couples or a lot of nudists?
2. Is there a fairly active night time "naughty atmosphere”?
2b. Has anyone been there for new years and is it a busy/exciting time there....a more “happening” week? A good way to celebrate bringing in the new year?
3. What do you think the average age is?
4. Have you been to RM and are we missing out on the real party be choosing the more luxurious Pearl?
5. Can you go in the ocean or is the bottom too rocky/sharp to walk barefoot?
6. If we have the resources to stay at Pearl and visit RM are we at a disadvantage with meeting people there because we may not be there all day or most days?
7. Are the bugs really bad?...lol
8. Is it fairly convenient to do stuff outside the resort like some tours, jungle crap, fishing, get out for shopping or go to other restaurants? What else is there to do?
9. Last but not least, we usually go on dates with individual couples, as a result we don't have to compete........we are a little nervous about the group setting. We are both reasonably attractive/average and very outgoing.....do you think that is enough to not be ignored or feel left out? ....pretty sure we know the answer but looking for other’s experience.
Thanks so much for your time,
~Gingersnap & 88