Desire Resort Forums

My wife I have talked about going to Desire for a long time and I think we are ready to plan. We are in our early 30's, new to swinging and we are interested in exploring . We love a good time but we're not super outgoing. Which resort would all of you experienced travelers recommend for us?
Thanks in advance!

There is more of a vibe at RM. If you want something more mellow than Pearl.

You can't go wrong with either. DP might be a little more laid back, but it varies with who is there at any particular time. There is lots of helpful info posted on the forum and feel free to pm with any specific questions about DP.
PNJ