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Hi we are Newbies headed to Pearl Nov/Dec. Wondering about what is appropriate for dinner. Bought a few "outfits" mainly for disco, but trying to figure out what to wear for dinners.... I want to wear things I would never wear in real life, and want to take advantage of the type of resort we are going to..... without being asked to "go put something else on" I love the idea of wearing something like "Wicked Goddess", or "double yowzer" for dinner (from wickedtemptations). With Wicked Goddess would wear a G-string jewelry (make them myself)-- and with Yowzer either a pastie, or non-piercing nipple jewelry..... Is this too much (or too little as the case may be)? Should I wear a full cover dress for dinner?
Also, to eat at the more casual restaurants/ walking around the resort is it ok to wear a sheer shirt (long enough to just cover butt) and a G-string?
Nervous about being newbies, and looking weird/too "slutty".... but also wanting to step out of our comfort zone-- and spice up our relationship-- and maybe (hopefully) make Hubby's head spin
Thanks for any and all advice

From my experience...dinner attire is sexier than you would ever feel comfortable wearing in your own home town. It is not as sexy as you would wear to the disco, usually...although some do. Most of us wear low cut, high cut, sequined, sheer, dazzling and sexy attire to dinner. Then, many of us change to ultra sexy and naughty for the disco. This is where I wear my high heels, to dinner and disco...where I otherwise would not. The walks are short and it is fabulous wearing head to toe sexy glam for an evening with your honey! You will turn his head and others! Everyone appreciates the sexiness, as it is the atmosphere of the resort. Appreciating sexy, passionate, and romantic, as well as frisky and loving couples! Enjoy the moment!

Cheers!

I've seen plenty of gentlemen turned away for inappropriate attire, but never a lady! Be as sexy/ slutty/ glamorous as you wish. The more trips I go on, the more I like to push the boundaries...
Once wore only a large gauge fishnet dress, the only attention it caused was when Mr.got his shirt button caught in it it and we became entangled and needed assistance to be released
One of our friends once went to dinner dressed for the "casino night" with nothing more than a black micro mini skirt and the Ace of Spades painted on her back....not sure I'd go that far!
I say, go for it, where else can you?

Mrs tommer was right, most ladies wear a dress to the dinner, however skimpy it is, sheer, low cut, mini skirt, etc. My wife once wore a fishnet dress to the dinner. When it comes to the disco, the outfits becomes more creative and daring, with different degrees depending on different groups of people. At DP, it is a place where you can show as much or as little skin you want. No one will ask you to put more on, except that at the restaurants you have to put on something. Of course, most people show more than less. So less is more is true there. Pasties or nipple jewel will definitely add spice to the atmosphere. Making a g-string jewelry by yourself is awesome, like to see them.

When walking on the resort grounds, you are free to wear anything, or not wearing anything. A simple cover up or a sheer shirt is just fine. Nothing is outrageous there. Just put on whatever you like to try and you sure will have a great time.

Getting excited about our upcoming trip! I was wondering how far I could push the limits too! Seems like the possibilities are endless. I want to make sure I am dressed appropriately for dinner, while still blowing my husband's mind! I love hearing the examples of what the women are wearing...anyone else care to share their experience of what they have worn to dinner or disco, or what they have witnessed others wearing? Thx!

See avatar for disco outfit!

WhiteSands wrote:See avatar for disco outfit!

That outfit certainly says it all Our favorite outfits are the fishnets with shoes That works for breakfast, lunch and dinner Of course for dinner sheer and jewelry also goes well with jeweled heels

tikihutguy wrote:Our favorite outfits are the fishnets with shoes That works for breakfast, lunch and dinner Of course for dinner sheer and jewelry also goes well with jeweled heels

My capsule wardrobe!

Thanks for the info Where do people usually shop? Having a hard time finding somewhere that ships to Canada without charging and arm and a leg (plus have to think about the possibility of duty!!)...
Love some of the outfits on wicked temptations-- but find it to be quite pricey.

I have most luck on good old eBay. Just search for sexy or sheer or fishnet, and see what pops up! Sometimes have to be patient, but there are some real bargains to be had.

Thanks, btw love your outfit I have made a few G-string Jewelry things, and some non-piercing nipple jewelry, and 2 sets of labia jewelry.... never worn them for any one but hubby.... hopefully will have the nerve to wear them in Nov/|Dec at Pearl

Thank you.
It's the place to do it. Body jewellery is very sexy.....

Yandy.com, Fredericks.com and Spicylingerie.com ship to Canada, the shipping costs from Fredericks.com & Spicylingerie.com are actually fairly reasonable.

You can also check out Pinkcherry.ca/lingerie they are Canadian with good prices and ship inexpensively & discreetly packaged from their warehouse in Toronto via Canada Post. They don't have as large a selection as the ones from the US but worth a look.

Thanks

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