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First Timers

PostPosted: Tue Apr 21, 2015 2:45 pm
by sean52
My husband and I are contemplating Desire. I have experienced the lifestyle in previous marriage and had a bad experience with it mostly because of my ex and it was a control issue. I love my current husband and have all the trust and security in the world and would love to experience this with him. We have discussed the temptation everywhere and using as getting us charged and also the possibility of it going further. I am curious as to the overall atmosphere. We are 46 and 52 and I have body image issues, but the thought of being around uninhibited people excites the hell out of me. Please offer insight, tips and recommendations.

Re: First Timers

PostPosted: Tue Apr 21, 2015 5:28 pm
by Travelcouple89
I think Desire is an excellent choice for this experience with your husband. I don't think you could find anyplace that could make you as comfortable I your own skin as Desire does. I encourage you to read through the forums in efforts to make the best decision possible for you two. There is some great information in here that will answer a lot of your questions, concerns, hopes, and of course desires. :wink: I don't think you will be disappointed.

Re: First Timers

PostPosted: Tue Apr 21, 2015 6:06 pm
by Princessambergirl
Read my posts, if u want too....same damn issue. It May help, or i will be more that happy to chat via messenger, we are first-class timers coming in June

Re: First Timers

PostPosted: Wed Apr 22, 2015 8:11 am
by Twohere4some
sean52 wrote:My husband and I are contemplating Desire. I have experienced the lifestyle in previous marriage and had a bad experience with it mostly because of my ex and it was a control issue. I love my current husband and have all the trust and security in the world and would love to experience this with him. We have discussed the temptation everywhere and using as getting us charged and also the possibility of it going further. I am curious as to the overall atmosphere. We are 46 and 52 and I have body image issues, but the thought of being around uninhibited people excites the hell out of me. Please offer insight, tips and recommendations.


We went to Desire RM last fall for the first time. Had looked at Pearl also but they did not have availability on a couple of the days we wanted. Don't believe there is a wrong choice between the two and plan on visiting there also when we go back to RM in a few weeks.

It doesn't matter if you are only looking for a place where the two of you are free to explore what you share together or want to see what is available with others, all is available! As for body image, there were all shapes and sizes. Can honestly say there was more interest by those we met about what you were like on the inside than the outside.