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Hi,
we'll arive to Desire Pearl on May 23 for 7 nights .
We are 41 (he) 42 (she), we expect to meet friendly people and have a lot of sex sharing with another couples.
My question is, how and where we can ask another couple for playnig with us?
We are from Poland:)
Best Regards
Peter

Just be friendly and open to those you meet. Sometimes just saying Hi and a smile can open doors to other possibilities. At DRM, best places we found to meet others were the lobby bar, hot tub in the late afternoon and the disco. Don't be afraid to start a conversation.

Good luck!

Twohere4some wrote:Just be friendly and open to those you meet. Sometimes just saying Hi and a smile can open doors to other possibilities. At DRM, best places we found to meet others were the lobby bar, hot tub in the late afternoon and the disco. Don't be afraid to start a conversation.

Good luck!

Thank you very much for your answer.
Is it popular to invite another couple at room?
Best Regards

pjazdz wrote:

Twohere4some wrote:Just be friendly and open to those you meet. Sometimes just saying Hi and a smile can open doors to other possibilities. At DRM, best places we found to meet others were the lobby bar, hot tub in the late afternoon and the disco. Don't be afraid to start a conversation.

Good luck!

Thank you very much for your answer.
Is it popular to invite another couple at room?
Best Regards

Sorry for a lot of questions, but it's better to know....
Is it popular to join couple that playing at hot tube beds? How ask them to join?
Thanks' for help

Just talk to people. At Desire it's acceptable to politely ask people if they're swingers. If you find them attractive, give them a compliment, invite them to dinner, offer them a blowjob, there are lots of ways to go about it.

The jacuzzi lounge is the #1 place to find play partners. We prefer to play on the jacuzzi beds but play definitely happens in the rooms as well.

SJCrazy wrote:Just talk to people. At Desire it's acceptable to politely ask people if they're swingers. If you find them attractive, give them a compliment, invite them to dinner, offer them a blowjob, there are lots of ways to go about it.

The jacuzzi lounge is the #1 place to find play partners. We prefer to play on the jacuzzi beds but play definitely happens in the rooms as well.

I'd definitely agree with the comments above. People are always open to a conversation, and if you want more then just be open and ask if they swing, into the lifestyle, and you'll usually get frank and open responses. No offence will be taken.

See you soon.

Caz and Andy

I also think that if YOU two start something at the jacuzzi, then you may pique the interest of other couples... rather than you trying to join in, in others' play. If you two start playing and see others watching, you can wave them over to join in? Then if things go well, you can take it to your room or theirs?

Budlee wrote:I also think that if YOU two start something at the jacuzzi, then you may pique the interest of other couples... rather than you trying to join in, in others' play. If you two start playing and see others watching, you can wave them over to join in? Then if things go well, you can take it to your room or theirs?

Yep, that approach would work also.

People can smell it on you too. Since we've gotten into the lifestyle we have been asked more than once in vanilla bars if we swing. Now we are less judgmental of other people while out for a fun night. We are more touchy feely in a fun, non committal, don't read into it kinda way. We also won't turn on each other if we are flirting with other people. We are more confident than ever that we are coming home to each other.

That all being said, to confirm what people have already said. Be sexy, be outgoing, be sexy. If other people swing that way, then they will not be able to resist the urge to want to join you. It also goes the other way, if people are being outwardly sexy, ask if you can join them. It's a very polite ecosystem.

"Polite Ecosystem" I like it.

Hahaha..."Polite ecosystem". I hear David Attenborough narrating the evening at the jacuzzi for us....

"And here we see the southeastern American swinging couple in action. Notice how the wife gently caresses the breasts of the other mans wife. The men seem engaged...let's see where this goes...."

K&S4Fun&Sun wrote:Hahaha..."Polite ecosystem". I hear David Attenborough narrating the evening at the jacuzzi for us....

"And here we see the southeastern American swinging couple in action. Notice how the wife gently caresses the breasts of the other mans wife. The men seem engaged...let's see where this goes...."

Suggestion....have an older distinguished British gentleman narrating the jacuzzi bar every evening. I'm sold.

K&S4Fun&Sun wrote:Suggestion....have an older distinguished British gentleman narrating the jacuzzi bar every evening. I'm sold.

I could try that, not sure if I'm old enough, and my use of words would be no where near as informative, but worth a laugh.

feverpair wrote:

K&S4Fun&Sun wrote:Suggestion....have an older distinguished British gentleman narrating the jacuzzi bar every evening. I'm sold.

I could try that, not sure if I'm old enough, and my use of words would be no where near as informative, but worth a laugh.

Bring the more 70's London punk scene vibe to your narration. Be a distinguished Brit who tells any man who refuses a kindly offered BJ to piss off.