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If wife does not go bottomless, would she get unnoticed ?

Depends on the outfit. Sometimes what you are wearing makes you stand out more than if you were naked.

On our trip to Pearl, Rose rarely got completely nude. But she did wear a hot pink thong bikini bottom and with her blonde hair and deep tan, she was very much noticed by everyone around the pool.

petesal692 wrote:If wife does not go bottomless, would she get unnoticed ?

Of course not. It's all about what you are comfortable wearing or not wearing.

miranda2 wrote:

petesal692 wrote:If wife does not go bottomless, would she get unnoticed ?

Of course not. It's all about what you are comfortable wearing or not wearing.

Attitude is everything, if your wife is confident in who she is as a person, I think just about anything will be sexy on her and people will notice that.

It's all about how outgoing and confident you are. Smile, say hi to people and participate in activities. Women wearing bottoms are in the minority, but nobody really cares.

One of our outfits for week after next, has a top and no bottom .... is that a problem?

MissingTheCarib wrote:One of our outfits for week after next, has a top and no bottom .... is that a problem?

Nope, that won't be a problem. You will see a lot of unique outfits while you are there. In our opinion they are all good! Have a great time!

SJCrazy wrote:It's all about how outgoing and confident you are. Smile, say hi to people and participate in activities. Women wearing bottoms are in the minority, but nobody really cares.

Confidence is SO sexy!

Wear what you want or don't want nobody cares, in time everyone figures out there own comfort zone, don't push it, trust me she will be more fun if she is comfortable

Exactly. Comfort is what matters. If you are self conscious you will never relax, never enjoy yourself and never feel the magic of the place. Of course since we are pretty much always nude we have the added benefit of smaller suitcases.

petesal692 wrote:If wife does not go bottomless, would she get unnoticed ?

Absolutely not!

Your wife should wear whatever she is comfortable with. But she is more likely to get noticed with her bottoms on than without! What really matters is how confident she is and how much she joins in. If she is comfortable and happy then that's all that matters. About 10% of women wear bottoms at Pearl so she won't be alone. Nobody cares either way. Just relax and enjoy.

OK...good question...we are not nudist at all. But at Desire we run around without our clothes on, just because. My wife does leave her bottoms on most of the time just because she is more comfortable. And gets plenty of attention.

Honestly, we'd be just as happy with bathing suites on. What can I tell you, to each his own. But no one cares what you wear at Desire. Bottoms on, bottoms off, top on, top off...