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I never thought I would have so many wardrobe questions when I headed to a CO resort! I think I have dinner dresses covered thanks to all the awesome posts on the forums. I know some people dress differently for the Disco and Theme Nights. I have seen several posts about the Bare as You Dare night and they are awesome. For the other nights, do women usually wear dresses to the Disco? Lingerie? A thong and pasties? A smile?

All of the above. You will see just about anything. On our first trip I had my husband check out everyone's dinner attire while I put my make-up on then come back and advise me on what to wear. Also did the same thing for the disco.

I've (mrs) been to RM 13 times and will be at Pearl for the first time this Friday...I assume the disco wear would be similar for both.
Wear something you feel sexy in, makes your SO's jaw drop and it will be the perfect choice.
I have seen just about everything in the disco from flip flops and a g string, corsets, thigh high boots and pasties, leather bondage stuff, shorts and t shirts, and many women wear a sexy dress to dinner and stay in it for the disco. If you have a fantasy outfit(s) go for it! It will work. No matter how wild and crazy your outfit is....someone else's will be crazier.

This will be making a Desire disco outing next month ----------->

WhiteSands wrote:This will be making a Desire disco outing next month ----------->

Was going to say Looking forward to seeing it! We'll have been there for 5 days when you arrive, but we're going to be there until the 19th! Woo Hoo!....but then realized you went last year. Boo Hoo!

WhiteSands wrote:This will be making a Desire disco outing next month ----------->

Where did you get that? It is fabulous....

During our trip last year I usually wore lingerie to the disco: babydolls, bra & panty sets, etc. I would supplement my disco outfits with a few inexpensive little props-- a crown for Kings & Queens, angel wings for Heaven & Hell...I even wore a wig one night, just for kicks (hubby LOVED it). It was a fun, easy way to get into the theme nights while still being sexy. We'll be there again in November and I'll plan similarly for this trip: buy a mask for Masquerade night, lots of rhinestones for Glamorous night... so many possibilities!

My main advice: whatever you wear, make sure it's something you feel totally comfortable in and you will be good to go! I have a hard time in heels, but decided to "be sexy" and wear a pair of stripper heels anyway. After nearly breaking my leg the first night, I wore sandals & flats the rest of the trip and was much happier (and probably much sexier, since I could actually move around!)

Looks like we'll be leaving a couple days before you arrive, Dahlia. Bummer, would've loved to see what you decide on!

JAG&Kitten wrote:

WhiteSands wrote:This will be making a Desire disco outing next month ----------->

Was going to say Looking forward to seeing it! We'll have been there for 5 days when you arrive, but we're going to be there until the 19th! Woo Hoo!....but then realized you went last year. Boo Hoo!

Have amended our dates, we're going the exact same dates this year too! 9-15th at RM, 15th-23rd Pearl. See you there!

DahliaandDrR wrote:

WhiteSands wrote:This will be making a Desire disco outing next month ----------->

Where did you get that? It is fabulous....

Found it on a UK fetish website (horrendously expensive) then found the same thing on eBay, shipped from China!

WhiteSands wrote:

DahliaandDrR wrote:

WhiteSands wrote:This will be making a Desire disco outing next month ----------->

Where did you get that? It is fabulous....

Found it on a UK fetish website (horrendously expensive) then found the same thing on eBay, shipped from China!

Amazing. Did you search body chains? Fetishwear? What do you call that? I feel like I need one. And you look amazing in it!

DahliaandDrR wrote:Amazing. Did you search body chains? Fetishwear? What do you call that? I feel like I need one. And you look amazing in it!

You might want to check out this site for body jewelery, not sure if they have the exact one as Whitesands wears in her avatar but they are very inexpensive, shipments take about two weeks to arrive

I got lots of that same body jewellery on AliExpress for about half that price. Same goes for lingerie, sexy dresses, bikinis, pasties, etc. It's my new favourite shopping site.

miranda2 wrote:I got lots of that same body jewellery on AliExpress for about half that price. Same goes for lingerie, sexy dresses, bikinis, pasties, etc. It's my new favourite shopping site.

Amazing! And free shipping to the UK. Not enough time to order anything for this holiday (less than 2 weeks!), but will be shopping for next year for sure. Thanks xx

Oh and as for eBay, just search for 'chain lingerie' or the like.

Great stuff! Thanks for the suggestions!

WhiteSands wrote:

JAG&Kitten wrote:

WhiteSands wrote:This will be making a Desire disco outing next month ----------->

Was going to say Looking forward to seeing it! We'll have been there for 5 days when you arrive, but we're going to be there until the 19th! Woo Hoo!....but then realized you went last year. Boo Hoo!

Have amended our dates, we're going the exact same dates this year too! 9-15th at RM, 15th-23rd Pearl. See you there!

YAY!! YAY!!! YAY!!!! Just look for a 5'3" light brown/blonde/kinda reddish (the sun has done some interesting things to my hair this summer) very long haired woman with a birthmark high on the right "cheek" and a 6'1" bald, handsome (In my NOT so humble opinion when it comes to him) guy and say hi! We're 4 days and a wake up away and cannot wait.