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We are heading to Pearl on Dec 1st... Went to our first c/o beach earlier this month and fell in love with the entire experience. Pearl was booked in less then a week later! lololol.... We are very excited however we are not LS and are a little concerned that it may hinder our experience... We hope we wont be treated differently by other couples at the resort. We are very outgoing and love to have a good time... Hopefully we arrive, enjoy, get comfortable and maybe even put on a good show!

I understand your concern, but assure you there's no need to worry. The guests of Desire are the nicest, most respectful bunch around. No means no, limits are always respected, and nobody will think less of you for not being LS. In fact, you'll probably meet many people who feel the same way you do. You sound like a fun couple, I'm sure you'll fit right in!

We are not LS either but have been to Pearl four times and are headed back in October. Its so much fun we became members on our third trip. Rest assured your status in this regard is not important. And a good show is always welcome.

Lots of people (like us) are not LS. It didn't stop us from having an amazing time. There are many many folks who enjoy the erotically charged atmosphere without crossing over whatever line(s) they have pre-established. With that being said, we did the erotic massage...Let's just say toeing the line was ok, not to mention incredibly hot! If you have a good relationship with your spouse or significant other, your relationship will be better regardless of whatever lines you have established.

1sttimers wrote:We are heading to Pearl on Dec 1st... Went to our first c/o beach earlier this month and fell in love with the entire experience. Pearl was booked in less then a week later! lololol.... We are very excited however we are not LS and are a little concerned that it may hinder our experience... We hope we wont be treated differently by other couples at the resort. We are very outgoing and love to have a good time... Hopefully we arrive, enjoy, get comfortable and maybe even put on a good show!

Relax... you sound like a perfect fit, your in for a real treat.
Enjoy!!

1sttimers wrote:We are heading to Pearl on Dec 1st... Went to our first c/o beach earlier this month and fell in love with the entire experience. Pearl was booked in less then a week later! lololol.... We are very excited however we are not LS and are a little concerned that it may hinder our experience... We hope we wont be treated differently by other couples at the resort. We are very outgoing and love to have a good time... Hopefully we arrive, enjoy, get comfortable and maybe even put on a good show!

Our first time at Pearl, or any CO resort/beach for that matter, was back in February. We are neither LS nor exhibitionist but had an absolute blast. My advice, know yourselves, have some conversations before hand and read a few non LS trip reports... Our most recent trip was in June and was massively enhanced by making a few friends in advance on the forums and a FB group... it really helped to have someone to giggle with if you felt unsure, and definitely made dinner and disco more entertaining!!

You will love it! Can't wait to read your trip report.. and who knows, we may meet you on the beach if we can sneak away!!