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Wife and I are first timers and will be at Pearl on June 27th. We were wanting to participate in Burlesque night, Sexy Uniform night and Mysterious Masquerade nights. We have already have an idea for the sexy uniform night but when you look at Pearls website, Burlesque and Masquerade shows the men in basically business casual. From what I read on the forum, most people like it when the men participate in theme nights. My question is, wear business casual? If no, looking for any ideas for what a husband can wear on those two nights besides regular clothes.

Burlesque Night for the Men is "gangster night" for men. So, pull out your best Dick Tracy Impression and your all set. Masquerade night can be as simple as wearing a mask. I really believe that the ladies enjoy a man who dresses up on Theme nights. My hubby does, he amy think he looks silly for a few minutes but then the attention starts......

Good topic ! I too was thinking of dress pants. Button dress shirt with maybe it unbuttoned & tie hanging off.
All this for masquerade night

NWACpl wrote:Burlesque Night for the Men is "gangster night" for men. So, pull out your best Dick Tracy Impression and your all set. Masquerade night can be as simple as wearing a mask. I really believe that the ladies enjoy a man who dresses up on Theme nights. My hubby does, he amy think he looks silly for a few minutes but then the attention starts......

True - nothing as sexy as a man making an effort

Mrs. DK.

Sounds like dress slacks and a button up shirt is the way to go. Thank you all.

When we were at DRM in January, a lot of the men went the BDSM route for Masquerade night.
Think black, leather, harnesses etc.

Just Google the theme, however put sexy or adult in front of your search. Quite often Amazon has costumes less expensive, especially if you are Prime.

coupleluvs2watch wrote:Good topic ! I too was thinking of dress pants. Button dress shirt with maybe it unbuttoned & tie hanging off.
All this for masquerade night

Absolutely amazing!! Thank you for sharing with us your "experiences" at Desire. We are an older "mature newbie" couple who have learned a lot from you! Thanks so much!! (I am speaking about your "diary")

antillaria wrote:When we were at DRM in January, a lot of the men went the BDSM route for Masquerade night.
Think black, leather, harnesses etc.

I posted my question elsewhere a while back, but will repeat here in the event someone can answer.

We're heading to Pearl for our second time in Dec. First time there a few years back, I didn't really participate in theme nights, although wife dressed in mini dress and heels. This time, I think I'll be a little more brave and wife is suggesting she would like to see me in fishnet or sheer briefs and a shirt. Not really theme night attire but would that suffice?

In my opinion that would be fine. After years of not dressing up for theme nights I told my wife a couple of years ago that I will wear whatever she wants me to- without argument. On occasion that has led to some interesting evenings (i.e. zebra-patterned thong) but, all in all, it works out nicely. Theme nights have less to do with what you are wearing and more to do with making an effort.

We’re going Wed. to Sun. Here’s what we plan to wear:

Wed-Burlesque:
Him: Black, tight SS shirt and black tight pants
Her: Sexy corset and short black dress

Thurs-Uniform:
Him: Military uniform
Her: Short dress military uniform

Fri-Masquerade:
Him: Mask, black vest and silk underwear
Her: Mask, sexy lingerie

Sat-Dress to Impress
Him: Black jacket, no shirt and black pants
Her: Sexy, sheer black dress.

After several trips to Pearl/RM we have learned that we enjoy participating in theme nights and closing down the disco dancing.

ksr wrote:We’re going Wed. to Sun. Here’s what we plan to wear:

Wed-Burlesque:
Him: Black, tight SS shirt and black tight pants
Her: Sexy corset and short black dress

Thurs-Uniform:
Him: Military uniform
Her: Short dress military uniform

Fri-Masquerade:
Him: Mask, black vest and silk underwear
Her: Mask, sexy lingerie

Sat-Dress to Impress
Him: Black jacket, no shirt and black pants
Her: Sexy, sheer black dress.

After several trips to Pearl/RM we have learned that we enjoy participating in theme nights and closing down the disco dancing.

Sounds pretty conservative for the guy.
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Interesting. What would you recommend? I always struggle with this but want to participate.