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I am really struggling with Glow party and Desire University theme wear. I have everything else covered. For Mrs. Scuba I have an idea for Desire university but for me, both nights have me at a total loss. Any ideas?

Oh, for corset and gangster night I am going full 1920's gangster outfit - is this going over the top - too much?

Scuba

First, you're never overdress if you're confortable with that and if you enjoy the moment with your partner. What others think is secondary.

Second, for the Glow party, white clothes are always good. Mix a white pant with any fluo color T-shirt and you're ready for that party.
For Desire University, try to imagine how a classic dirty teacher could be! Or a school director. Google image can be a good source of ideas.

Most of all, have fun!

Other easy play - pun intended - with the Glow party. Get yourself a package of those glow stick bracelets, necklaces, goofy headbands, etc. You know, those plastic things you bend and mix the chemicals inside and they glow all sorts of neon colors for a few hours. You can get package off Amazon for next to nothing. Easy way to add some neon to whatever outfit you've got going. But then, to be fair, I'm sort of lame on the theme night front ... so you may want to make more of it than I do. Mrs. LetsH4veCoffee puts more into it than I go in for personally. Really though, it's not worth overthinking. People will be there fully themed, not themed, and everywhere in between. All good. You'll have a great time regardless.

In November mr. DK wore white (and tight) dress pants, white dress shirt, white belt, white shoes and a white waistcoat. To match my outfit, he had a neon green tie and pocket square (I wore neon green "glow in the dark" shoes) - and glow stick bracelets. Totally sexy - I couldn't wait to undress him

I just love it, when the men make an effort to match the females for theme nights. Super hot.

Mrs. DK

We've always had fun with the glow sticks, as LetsH4veCoffee suggests and we've had fun with glow-in-the-dark body paint. We've been able to find it on Amazon. Highlighting different areas is always fun.

The theme nights are the some of the best parts of Desire. So many people actually make an effort to dress the part (or undress the part as the case often is) that the dance floor is pretty fun. Some people do such a good job you don't even recognize them, even though you just saw them completely naked a couple hours earlier. For Desire University the naughty professor and the sexy student is easy enough, and glow night is by far the best night! Wear a little white (or nothing- to your comfort level) and buy a pack of glow sticks and have fun with it. Keep in mind that you can get away with ANYTHING. Trust me- there will always be someone wearing less clothing than you. We saw several couples last time who were naked except for neon body paint. Very hot! The more you get into the theme nights, oftentimes the more fun you have. The women often set the bar high and are quick to embrace the theme, but as a guy, its fun to see if I can keep up and not be a stick-in-the-mud.

Have fun- we'll see you there. We get there just a couple days earlier.

Jer and Jill