STRmtl wrote:Second time going to desire. We are going to Pearl this time, we are a full swap couple. Wanted to know the rules there.
Is it like RM? (Schedule wise)
We preferred the hot tub late afternoon and evening play.
Can anyone give us insight. I am 30 and she is 27 (age is not an issue)
Hi STR -
We have not been to RM so I really can't compare. However, we did Pearl in July '16 and are going back this July.
So, while there are "rules", we saw them bent a lot and never enforced. The only one they enforced was one evening when I was starving and walked into the hot tub with a ham sandwich. That sort of freaked out the bartender and my sober brain tells me that was a bone headed thing to do..... :-)
We saw a good bit (and experienced a bit) of PDA in areas that are typically off limits. It just depends on what level we are talking about. Was there full on sex in the middle of the buffet at lunch time - ummmm, no. But there was a little making out during the day in the pool (earlier in the day before the crowd hit). We witnessed full on sex during the foam party in the pool. A few times there was full-on sex in the hot tub (gggrrrooosssss) - see previous ham sandwich comment. We enjoyed the pool beds at night at the mild side of the pool. We saw a slight bit of PDA on the beach. So, all in all, some people (us included) 'bend' the rules. But other than what I mentioned, we really didn't see anything that we would consider overtly broken rules. Everyone there was extremely respectful of each other.
Scuba
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2017 7:40 pm
