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My wife has purchased several different boxer briefs for me to wear on the theme nights. If all I wear are the briefs, will I be the least clothed guy in the room, or will there typically be other guys barely dressed as well?

Nwatlcpl wrote:My wife has purchased several different boxer briefs for me to wear on the theme nights. If all I wear are the briefs, will I be the least clothed guy in the room, or will there typically be other guys barely dressed as well?

You will likely be in the minority but you won't be the least dressed or stand out if you're comfortable with it. It's your vacation with her. Enjoy

Nwatlcpl wrote:My wife has purchased several different boxer briefs for me to wear on the theme nights. If all I wear are the briefs, will I be the least clothed guy in the room, or will there typically be other guys barely dressed as well?

if you guys were there 2 weeks earlier you would see me in boxer briefs for a few theme nights.... i will wear my fancy clothes for dinner then change into my briefs before the disco.. i hope the ac isn't as cold as last time otherwise the missus might need a magnifying glass for play!

We need more men to dress for theme anyway! I always do, but it was like 70% women dressed to theme and like 5% men if lucky.... but I refuse to give up, no matter how stupid I look

I always dress for theme night..the wife says if she is then I am (plus she buys the stuff for me to wear)
Dancing I wear a G-string 50% of the time and a little more the other times. My wife again buys them and expects them to be worn.
She wears only a G-string also, nothing on top. God I love watching her dance that way.
You'll be arriving a few days after we leave.

We've been having so much fun picking outfits for theme nights! They mostly consist of sexy lingerie and boxers (mesh, leather, etc) with accessories (hats, handcuffs, etc). Hopefully we don't stick out if others are not participating. Oh well, we will be having fun. Do themes nights ever change? We wont be visiting DP until February.

Can you tell we are excited for our first trip? Also looking forward to only needing one suitcase since the clothing needs are minimal.

Indeed. Last trip I even managed to pack lighter than in the past but somehow we ended up with more bags total. Apparently Desire travel abhors a luggage vacuum.

Is going to be our first visit to Pearl. And my dear wife who is usually very self-conscious and shy is planning on outfits for every night that we are there. I cannot good conscience allow her to dress up in a costume and not participate with her. She will be far sexier than I am but we will be matching.

Been to Pearl two times....third coming up in few weeks. When we do go to the disco wife is looking mighty fine. I have worn boxer briefs with my neon outfit, uniform outfit....you get the idea. Before going to Pearl the first time, while shopping with wife for risqué clothes, she asked me what I was planning on wearing. I told her pants and a shirt. She said no way you're going to pimp me out while you're in regular clothes. So, I obliged her and dressed up too. No one took notice in my neon yellow and black boxer briefs, neon yellow sleeveless and bare feet.

I will be participating in the theme nights as well. It will be fun, just go for it you won't be the only one.

I am not planning on just boxers but actual matching costumes. Looking forward to some sexy times!

We're part of the lame majority that don't do the themes. We're not huge club folks anyway, although we're committed to being more so this time, so buying, changing, etc for just a short while doesn't work for us. Plus the disco scene at Pearl isn't huge or last long, so again it's hard to get into that aspect. Lastly, being in the sexy dinner attire (short dresses, tight, see through, heels, etc) is hotter on a dancefloor than nearly nude to us... It feels like an ultra lounge... Classy and sexy... But that's just us. To each their own though. I love when people wear what they feel sexy in and just have a good time. I really don't think there's a wrong way to do it.

Are most of the costumes on theme nights R rated , X rated, or XXX rated? Wife wondering what to pack and whether XXX attire might attract unwelcome touching since we are not in the L/S.

We get a little more courageous on every trip. On our 2nd trip last year, our final night, wife wore black sheer minidress and g-strings with stilettos. I wore a long black polo with fishnet boxers. She looked mighty hot and I felt pretty good too. Unfortunately, there was no one in the playroom so she refused to enter. Thankfully, we finished the night off happily on the Jacuzzi bed.

Costumes are a mix of almost conservative all the way to almost no clothing at all. All styles are welcome and nothing attracts unwanted touching
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farojc wrote:Are most of the costumes on theme nights R rated , X rated, or XXX rated? Wife wondering what to pack and whether XXX attire might attract unwelcome touching since we are not in the L/S.