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The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby Shaky878 » Thu Sep 14, 2017 10:05 am

My wife are looking at pearl in May. We really aren't in the swinging lifestyle (have a couple of times) but just really want a place where we can enjoy being naked and enjoy a very sexual atmosphere and see what happens. I just want to make sure that we are not fully in the lifestyle that pearl would still be a great place for us to come too. Thanks
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby reachn » Thu Sep 14, 2017 10:58 am

Poke around the site and you will find plenty of info on this subject...... The wife and i are not swingers and had a blast every trip, all of the guests were great! Lots of nudist couples some vacation only swingers some full time swingers ect... you will have a great time!!!
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby backatit » Thu Sep 14, 2017 3:38 pm

Reachn is absolutely correct. Whatever your limits are, you will have a great time at Desire. Nobody pressures you, everybody is friendly. The key is to know and discuss your limits! 8)
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby Twohere4some » Thu Sep 14, 2017 5:36 pm

We made our first trip to Pearl last December after 3 trips to DRM. Know it can change by the week but during our stay (8 days) we met more people like you than those more into the lifestyle. In our trips to DRM, it has been a little more the other way but still met a number that we just enjoyed hanging with.
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby two4funinpa » Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:01 pm

Twohere4some wrote:We made our first trip to Pearl last December after 3 trips to DRM. Know it can change by the week but during our stay (8 days) we met more people like you than those more into the lifestyle. In our trips to DRM, it has been a little more the other way but still met a number that we just enjoyed hanging with.


Yep, that's been our experience too. We'd go back to either place (and have). Both are fun and offer whatever you're looking for. But RM, in our experience, is a bit wilder.
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby Travelcouple89 » Tue Sep 19, 2017 5:50 pm

Pearl will be an excellent choice for you.....either resort will be actually. You don't have to be in the lifestyle at Desire.....you are accepted as you are, no matter what your choices are, and made to feel at home. The people are amazing and you'll be very pleased with any choice you make.
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby willijes » Thu Sep 21, 2017 3:05 pm

We are only swingers when we travel to Desire Pearl or RM, back home we are a plain vanilla couple, not members of any swinger websites.

We have had plenty of trips here where we didn't "hook up" with anyone and had a perfectly lovely time and some trips where it was quite "steamy with other couples" it's your vacation to do or not do as you please :)
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby animal hats » Wed Sep 27, 2017 8:58 pm

willijes wrote:We are only swingers when we travel to Desire Pearl or RM, back home we are a plain vanilla couple, not members of any swinger websites.

We have had plenty of trips here where we didn't "hook up" with anyone and had a perfectly lovely time and some trips where it was quite "steamy with other couples" it's your vacation to do or not do as you please :)

:L very well said
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby eddieandjojo » Thu Sep 28, 2017 4:54 am

animal hats wrote:
willijes wrote:We have had plenty of trips here where we didn't "hook up" with anyone and had a perfectly lovely time and some trips where it was quite "steamy with other couples" it's your vacation to do or not do as you please :)

:L very well said

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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby Vanilla Xtracts » Sat Oct 07, 2017 4:26 pm

willijes wrote:We are only swingers when we travel to Desire Pearl or RM, back home we are a plain vanilla couple, not members of any swinger websites.

We have had plenty of trips here where we didn't "hook up" with anyone and had a perfectly lovely time and some trips where it was quite "steamy with other couples" it's your vacation to do or not do as you please :)


Mostly the same for us but we've joined some websites to learn about sexy travel options, "no play room" type parties for weekend getaways, and theme night outfit ideas. Through the websites we've met some really great people visiting our city for drinks & winks but nothing too serious & certainly no drama.

We always let folks know in advance that we aren't going to play in our own backyard but that we can be a good "plan B" option for some fun company to have dinner & drinks if they don't end up finding dates for more.
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby Taster » Sat Oct 07, 2017 5:38 pm

We went to Pearl this past August, and had a decent time. We don't consider ourselves swingers, though that darn word is a hard one to deal with. Do we hang out with swingers? Sure. Party with swingers? Sure. Drink, get drunken partying with swingers and perhaps play a little good-natured grab-ass? Sure. Swap? Nope. Trade partners? Nope. Enjoy the hell out of the sexually-charged atmosphere? Sure. Love being anked, walking around during the blasting Mexican sunshine? Absolutely!

It's a great place to go, connect with your special one. If you want to run around and play, you can certainly dot hat, anywhere along the spectrum. But then, it is quite easy to do it at home, too,... so does that make DP special just for that reason? I say, nah... not so much.
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby TandD » Sun Oct 08, 2017 1:22 pm

Taster wrote:It's a great place to go, connect with your special one. If you want to run around and play, you can certainly dot hat, anywhere along the spectrum. But then, it is quite easy to do it at home, too,... so does that make DP special just for that reason? I say, nah... not so much.


While it's true that you can probably do the same kinds of things at home, for us, being *away* from home puts us in a different frame of mind. There's something about being in a special location (a different country even) that puts a different spin on things. It kind of gives us a license that we might not have/take at home. To be sure, we don't throw out all of our rules and YOLO our way through our entire stay but there is something about being on a (relatively) rare vacation that frees up some inhibitions that isn't the same as going to a club back home - for us.
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby cs70065 » Sun Oct 08, 2017 6:40 pm

We have also been to both resorts. While we have dabbled in the lifestyle, its not a all the time thing for us. I will say that you will find Pearl a lot more tame then RM. Just like it was described above. RM seemed to have more play with it and a lot more could be seen at the hot tub. At Pearl, there were times the hot tub was empty. Especially after dark. I prefer RM because of the fun in the hot tub. My wife prefers Pearl becuase of how laid back it is and isnt looking for all that. She prefers just the nude crowd over the lifestyle crowd. And we are looking for a laid back trip to relax rather then the spring break party
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Re: The Lifestyle at Pearl

Postby funcouple318 » Fri Oct 13, 2017 11:25 am

wife and I aren't swingers either so was wondering about theme nights. should we even plan on attending? as you can tell this is our first trip
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