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My wife and I will be returning to DP and will be booking an erotic massage. I've seen other posts about the paperwork to fill out regarding the "No-Go" areas. My wife is going to have a masseur. Is it normal for him to arouse her private area until she has an orgasm or is that not allowed"? I know this is an awkward question, but would like to understand the expectations before we get there.

Absolutely allowed.

can the client touch the masseur?

raul75 wrote:can the client touch the masseur?

The masseur keeps their clothes on..but a little rubbing and touching isn't frowned upon...

(We had a tame erotic massage with most of the boxes crossed off.)

It is one checklist for both of you, not each, so that's an interesting way to encourage both halves of your couple being on the same page. For us, at the end they pushed the two massage beds together and left us alone to have sex. They told me they were leaving, but didn't tell my wife and there were towels over our eyes, so it was fun touching her and her realizing it was me and giving a big smile. One of the check boxes gives you the option of the masseuses staying in the room; we talked to another couple that did that and the masseuses helped push their hips together, but weren't in the middle of things.

If you go it alone, you might ask to have the masseuses leave some massage oil around to play with, since for us they didn't leave any bottles around, and we just had a thin amount left on our skin. I checked and the cabinets were all empty.

Afterward the warm-but-not-too-hot courtyard tub with chocolate strawberries and champagne was fun. After the tub we sat in the interior lounge and had some nice teas and just lounged in comfy chairs wearing the spa robes, which was very relaxing and chill after everything, and we could stay there as long as we wanted.

They have these little door hanger cards that say "love in progress, please come back later" on one side and we swiped one as a souvenir. We have fun hanging it on the door now and then. The "please, clean the room" side doesn't seem to work

Thanks for all the responses! Based on other comments I've read on other threads regarding this topic, my wife plans to request Oscar as her masseur. For me, I don't really care because this is more about her than it is about me, however I'm sure it will be enjoyable for both us.

Have people requested two female masseurs and how were the results?

Last time we were there, we got talked into the 2hr membership sales crap. In return, we were offered lobster dinner or deep tissue massage coupons. We took the latter, which turned out to be really good.

Has anyone been successful in negotiating for the Erotic massage coupon instead?

Yes, we were given the option of a free erotic or sensual massage. But we didn't negotiate for it, they just offered it out of the blue.

We had the erotic couples massage and left all options open. Requested two female masseuses and the results were amazing for my GF, multiple times! Also good for me and they stayed and "assisted" while we played at the end. The hot tub and champagne afterward just beg for a photographer to capture the scene, but alas.

We were offered the regular massage for the sales pitch, but they gave us a few hundred credit towards the erotic massage when we asked (not a good negotiator, bet I could have gotten it free if I tried). Had two female masseuse as well, we both enjoyed it greatly. My wife enjoyed the woman's touch, as she said she "knew exactly what to do" and was a bit gentler then most men who attack it like a "how to make a woman squirt" instruction video.... without enough warm up. They were frustratingly good at holding me ready, without release...... I attacked my wife the instant I could

We got the erotic message. While I wasnt really that excited with my masseuse, my wife loved Oscar. In fact she went back the next day and got another one from him. Both of them stayed while we were put together and Oscar continued the message on the wife and my masseuse was helping me . Will definetly do one again

Hopefully this isn't too intimate a question, but when massaging the female, do they insert their fingers or just rub the outer areas. Just wondering whether we want to go for this next time round and a little more understanding would be great. It wouldn't bother us either way but it helps to set our expectations.

You will complete a questionnaire prior to your Massage. Multiple options are listed on the form for you to check off that you would NOT want done. Just leave them ALL unchecked and enjoy! Penetration is with hands or toys only (you provide toys if you want). Pretty sure male masseuses all follow this guideline. But you are at Desire!

we did the erotic massage session and while is was fun and pretty wild, i think for this trip i'm booking Oscar for a solo session with shannon.