Please don’t read if repeated newbie questions frustrate you. You will hate my guts by the end of this. I just need my answers in one place. Kasie and I (Ryan) will be there Dec 31st to Jan 5th. It is a 19th anniversary/40 something birthday/New Years/damn it we’re not old and we still have it trip. We’re not in the lifestyle beyond kinky talk in the heat of the moment and a few mojitos. So here goes a million newbie questions at once...
1. We arrive at around 4:30 on the 31st. What should we do first - hot tub? Speaking of hot tub, do you wear your suits there and then take them off or just a robe from the room? In all honesty we might be fully clothed including jackets as we get used to the vibe!
2. Dinner attire at Pearl and Aphrodite. Is it slacks and button shirt or nice dark jeans and button shirt? I don’t really want to wear dress shoes and slacks for dinner each night - kind of stuffy.
3. Water -can you drink it or do they have bottled water?
4. Sales pitch - listen to get the spa discount or not?
5. Erotic massage - I know Oscar for the misses but who for the husband? Also, I’ve read reports of the masseur being aggressive with the touching on the wife - is Oscar gentle and/or coachable? Also, should we just do sensual or erotic? Do they both involve massage of ALL areas?
6. Drinks - ladies which is your favorite that won’t kill an elephant? A little drink helps the mood but too much is no bueno.
7. I don’t read much about people spending time on the beach. Is that because most people hang out at the pool?
8. I thought I saw a link that listed the daily activity schedule but now I can’t find it - does anyone have it? Also, what are the couples workshops?
9. My wife’s biggest fear is she will see a neighbor or coworker there -lol. So if we are a little “vague” in answers about ourselves at first don’t worry -we’ll open up.
10. Finally, for newbie non lifestyle folks (or if that defined you on your first trip) - what is the one thing you wish you had done on your first trip but didn’t?
Thank you in advance! We are probably going to bring yeti cups with our names on them to make intros easier. Looking forward to a great time (right after we hyperventilate in the lobby).