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Me and my wife are pretty young in relation to the overall average age at Desire it seems like most couples are in there 30-40s me and my wife are 21 me 23 her. How is that going to play out as to finding couples to hangot with and hopefully click with?

We are at the other end of the age scale 50 -60 and have worried about that like you do at the young end. Just relax, your age may actually work as a magnet to draw in friendly people. Dont worry over it!

My wife and I are in our mid 50's and had our first visit last year. We are coming back this year. We loved it. Such a great experience. Life does begin at 50.
Just be yourself and enjoy.
BTW...we would like to meet other couples in our age group. Please PM if so.
Chris & Julie

We're in our mid 40's, looks like we're in our 30's, sometimes act like we're in our 20's, sometimes feels like we're in our 60's. Moral of the story...I have no idea. Just have fun!

Honestly, I think it's going to be a bit strange for you. To be clear, the older folks there will have no problem hanging out with you. But, as was mentioned, it's going to be like hanging out with friends of your parents - naked.

On a couple of occasions, we've seen a younger couple keep to themselves and not quite seem to join in with all the other reindeer - and that's not normally how it works. Now maybe these folks were also very shy in addition to being young but I got the impression they just weren't "feelin it". Of course, we have also met a couple who were probably 20 years our junior - maybe in their 30s - who we had a blast hanging out with. There's no way we can tell you how it's going to be with any certainty.

Not trying to persuade you not to come - just be prepared to see "Mom and Dad" lettin' it all out at the hot tub. If you can get past that, the people are the nicest you are going to meet at any resort you will ever go to.

All the above comments are true. I will just add that if you are looking to go and meet and click with a bunch of couples that are young and hot like you you will probably be disappointed. If you go and are open to clicking with fun open minded people that will be 10-20 years older than you will have a great time. Most of the people at Desire take good care of themselves and look 5-10 years younger that they are but the bottom line is the average age will be more than 15 years older than you.
Having said that we now in our mid to late 40's we would have killed to have found Desire when we were in our 20's

Do your research first ! RM maybe better suited for your age ,at this point. We've encountered many young couples over the years who either loved it or hated the older crowd. If your both just into meeting people, your going to have a Blast!!!
Sexy young and wild might be a good start( August) do your homework

We made our first trip in our early 30s and immediately hit it off with several couples in their late 40s and 50s. We're now 50 and are having the reverse experience; meeting couples in their early 30s. Desire has truly taught us that "ageism" is totally in your mind. When you're hanging out nekkid in the sun with fun people and a few drinks it's all good! Have fun!

We started going to hedo at your age- we were 22 and 23 at the time...13 long years ago. There may have been more younger people there than desire, but only because there were more rooms. The percentage is probably about the same.

We never felt odd or out of place. Always had fun, but never placed the success of vacation dependant upon hooking up, as a few times we didn't. Always made friends, some of them lifelong friends now. Some of them our age and some a decade or more older.

My recommendation is definitely to GO. You'll love it but all other vacations will be ruined for the rest of your life.

jd2121997 wrote:Me and my wife are pretty young in relation to the overall average age at Desire it seems like most couples are in there 30-40s me and my wife are 21 me 23 her. How is that going to play out as to finding couples to hangot with and hopefully click with?

The youngest couple we met was in their mid 20's from Colombia. Even though we were 10-15 years older, we had fun together ...