Hello,
My wife and I will be at Desire Pearl in December. I have questions.
I am a little concerned about comment in some of the newer reviews about pool temp, food waits, and food quality. Is there anything to this? Or was that just a phase and has now been addressed by the resort?
We have never been to an all inclusive resort. We usually go on self guided adventures. Our choice for vacation was Pearl, or a 10 day motorcycle trip through North Vietnam and Cambodia. We choose Pearl. We are not naturists or swingers. We have been together for 27 years. She is 59, I am 49. I figured if we were going to a luxury resort, we may as well go to one that will push our personal limits and put us in an environment that we may learn or grow from, rather than sitting around a resort with screaming children, rude parents, drinking bottom shelf booze and dealing with rude staff. From what I gather, Pearl is not that.
My wife is not sure she will feel comfortable going naked much. She is into this trip, but has never been nude around other people. We are HWP, I think we are attractive, we have our share of extra flab, scares, and wrinkles. Hopefully after a few drinks and everyone else being naked and not giving a f&*k about it, she will feel comfortable.
But, when trying something so out of our wheelhouse (naked, a resort, Mexico without a dirtbike) the little comforts of a luxury resort go a long way towards being comfortable with everything. I am hoping we don't get a sleazy or creepy vibe from it all. Is it ever sleazy or creepy?
Is everything clean? I don't want to sit down on the edge or the pool or hot tub and touch someone body fluids. That would turn me off a bit.
The most important question. Has anyone ever done the horse tour that is available near Peurto Morales? My wife really wants to ride a horse around on the beach. I wonder if I should schedule a trip now, direct with the stable, or if I should wait until we are there? Is this something I can ask the concierge to arrange?
I read a few comments on a trip advisor forum about some of the locals (ex-pats it seems) do not like Desire being there, and do not like the guests to come into their businesses in Peurto Morales. I don't see how they would know where I am staying, but is there any truth to this?
Now that the trip is booked, I am actually a little nervous. I hope my wife likes it, it is too much to spend for her to not enjoy it. I hope December has some lively people, but at the same time, not too lively.
As far as public sex. I have mostly read that it is discreet and not in your face XXX sex in public. We are fine with that, hopefully we will find it arousing to be around, but I am not sure I want to see any more extreme sex acts in public. Sounds like in the common public areas that allow PDS, that it is actually tame and discreet. What about the sin room? I know, we don't have to go in there, but.........
I'll have more questions later. So excited, scared, turned on, and nervous, all at the same time. I wish we were going next week. It will be a long couple months waiting for this.