by Screamincheetah » Wed Jun 19, 2019 10:45 am
Everyone's giving great thoughts and being been helpful, which you'll find is the norm when you're at Desire. Everyone is relaxed, friendly, and non-judgemental.
Just adding or reiterating a few thoughts:
- we like express check in because we request certain buildings/floors/rooms and doing this gets us what we want.
- No nudity in the restaurants... And usually none or limited in the lobby most of the day (that's not a rule, but more respecting the business aspect of the resort and it's not really a sexy hangout... Until the night activities)
- As for the add-on activities, I'd say to get down there and decide once you're there. This first trip will likely be stimulating and involved enough that you won't really feel like doing extra (or paying for it). This will be our fifth Desire trip and we've never done any extras. Having said that, there is a sensual touch class that a couple puts on during some days. We'be heard great things and will be doing that this time. It's free but you're expected to tip the couple well as this is how they make their money.
- Age... You'll be on the younger end, but there will be others with you for sure. My wife is 33, for example. But you really won't notice or care too much about age. Again, everyone's in the same boat, are cool, fun, sexy, non-judgemental, etc.
- Swinging... Or any other sexual experience... I'll second the advice of communication... Communicate all of your thoughts, hopes, and ideas before you go. Communicate over and over when you're there. If you're open, honest, and communicating, all will be fine. ALSO... You will not feel pressured to swing. You will have people talking to you and being friendly, but that's where it stays unless you want it to go further.
Overall, just do to Desire with no plan or expectations. The only plan should be to have the most open and relaxed vacation of your life with your spouse. If that's the only plan, you will love your trip and have no disappointments at all.
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