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Re: Probably last trip

Postby Swohnewbie » Thu Aug 29, 2019 10:53 pm

Wow. I won’t even begin to try and unpack all this. Suit/no suit. LS/non LS. Go/won’t go. Seems like a lot of drama to me. And a lot judgement about a resort that’s supposed to be judgement free. We’ll just continue to go as long as we can enjoy our vacation. And when we feel like we’re forced to enjoy someone else’s idea of a vacation, we’ll start going somewhere else. And that will be that.
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Re: Probably last trip

Postby bmerryman » Wed Sep 04, 2019 8:53 am

We regularly go to a resort near Houston that bills itself as "clothing optional and lifestyle friendly". just like Desire. We aren't in the lifestyle (yet) but we go regularly to enjoy the nudity and be watched. We talk to lots of couples there that are not in the lifestyle, but still go. And the ones we talk to that are in the lifestyle enjoy us being there even if we aren't "available" to them. With all the pressures at work and in life to "be what you must be", I gotta say both Desire and our local resort are "just fine to us"! Desire is what you make it, nothing more or less!
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Re: Probably last trip

Postby Dani'stoy » Sat Sep 07, 2019 2:27 am

Not LS but love the LS people we've met and the vibe of this place...No idea what the hell you're talking about but...don't let the door hit you on your bare ass...well bye!
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Re: Probably last trip

Postby art lovers » Wed Sep 18, 2019 10:42 pm

Bravo to the last three posters... Swohnewbie, bmerryman and Dani’stoy. A perfect triple play response to the original post. Great economy with words. Thank you.
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Re: Probably last trip

Postby Justskin » Tue Sep 24, 2019 7:32 pm

Couple of thoughts for the original poster.
Can't speak to many of these postings, but here's our take....
Much of the lifestyle vibe comes from the day-to-day crowd. That can literally change overnight, we've seen it multiple times. We were at DRM last January and overall the crowd was comatose compared to the crowd we experienced there last week. And swimsuits? No one wore swimsuits. Well, there were a few bikini bottoms, but suits are rare. There's no guarantee about any of that.
And the Pearl itself has always been less LS oriented in our opinion. That's not to say that a couple can't find another fun pair with which to spend a sexy evening, but the odds are always better at DRM if that is a priority. We've have great times at both resorts, but the RM is always a bit more party oriented in our opinion. It's a more intimate setting with the smaller pool and hot tub. It lends itself to LS fun.

The other factor is you guys as a couple. Be fun, but not pushy. Interesting conversation can go a long way. My wife loves when we spend time with a funny couple, she's a sucker for a sexy comedian.
And most importantly, if you guys go with *no expectations* you'll have the time of your lives and likley be having the fun that you hope to.
We've done weeks at DRM where we didn't play with another couple but we had a ball. It's a mindset!

Hang in there!
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Re: Probably last trip

Postby PAFun » Sat Oct 05, 2019 12:12 pm

I'm guessing that the original poster isn't much fun to be around and LS couples are lying to him so that he doesn't bother them. He's probably bitching about something all day long. The idea that LS people "own" the Desire resorts and everyone else is a nuance is ridiculous. Newbies, don't consider this poster as being representative of your average LS person at Desire. There are very few like him.
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Re: Probably last trip

Postby Dani'stoy » Mon Oct 07, 2019 6:28 pm

art lovers wrote:Bravo to the last three posters... Swohnewbie, bmerryman and Dani’stoy. A perfect triple play response to the original post. Great economy with words. Thank you.




Thanks Art Lovers....If you're around November 10th through the 17th I'll buy you a drink!
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Re: Probably last trip

Postby Me&Princess » Tue Oct 08, 2019 8:55 am

Just one more response. We are in the lifestyle now but weren't when we started going to DRM. The people we met there, getting our feet wet in a no-pressure environment, was the single biggest factor in us making the lifestyle a part of our lives in the following years. Judgemental and pushy folks who make split-second decisions about how interesting, fun, or spontaneous someone is going to be based on whether they are nude or wearing a swimsuit would have turned us off right away.
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