I don't like the term newbie (but my wife does..lol) but I guess that is what we were on our first trip to naked paradise!
I am 41 and she is 33 and we took an adventure to see what would happen. Well nothing but happiness happened for us.
As a write this I'm writing saying things in general terms that apply to most of the people and workers.
Food - always great - lunch menu always got the ceasar salad - unique with grilled shrimp on the side and the fajitas were awesome
other food note - you can just ask for what you want or mix and match the menu and they try to make you happy if they can - buffet to us was just to supplement the menu offered for breakfast and lunch ---- Gustavo best waiter
Staff - very cool and fun - it helps the resort is smaller so you get to know them - people are happy to work there - not because people are naked but because people at the resort staying as guests are super friendly people and treat the staff well - we had laughs with the staff everyday and being just normal middle class people they did make us feel special and first class all the way
room - we got a master suite - just loved it - worth the small price in increase so we could have separate washrooms ....and then I really enjoyed having a beverage on the bed watching my wife get ready!
This could turn into a novel about 7 days at Pearl but here is what you need to know:
Meeting very cool couples from places such as Indiana, Alabama, Southern Ill. , Nebraska and Texas who would have thought that going into this trip. People that we just enjoyed spending time with at the pool, hot tub or dinner
You see people from 25-75 years old that truly love and want each other....it makes for a great vibe
I never thought this trip would connect my wife in such a strong way.
I never thought I would walk by people having sex and not even notice or care.
You would think the opposite that women would be sexier naked than dressed but it turned out the opposite when you saw women dressed for dinner and then the show in their sexy dresses and outfits it was hot.
It was absolutely awesome to go from chilling naked in and around the pool with everyone, then to the hot tub for chit chat and sometimes silly play then transition to dress up dinner where everyone looked great and then again back to the room to get ready for the theme night which was always hot and sexy. Theme night note: don’t worry about the exact theme – wearing anything that the women do to the night show is awesome! If its red night and you don’t have a red outfit but have red heart of lipstick on your arm that will do! Hopefully you get what I mean.
Ocean beds are great for lying in and looking at the ocean and some fun when the sun goes down as well. The water is not for swimming but big deal.
Beds by the jacuzzi – anything goes at anytime – or nothing goes at anytime – do what you feel like when you feel like
We can speak as first timers that we never dropped clothes in front of other people ever before or have been to any clubs or anything but embraced the culture of nakedness. We took part in some fun play but have firm boundaries as everyone should have boundaries of some sort. It made for great communication between us and then with other people.
Advice: Don’t force anything to ever happen and if it’s meant to be it will. Don’t do anything that you will regret. Always be polite with others and communicate openly with your spouse. Nobody I saw did a body shot or had one done to them without asking permission first. And YES it is very hot watching 3 beautiful women take the chocolate sauce off each other!
As im babbling all over the place if you have specific questions don’t be shy to ask. We used these forums for the basis of our trip and would gladly help any people wondering.
In conclusion my question would be… what happened different there than I thought it would be after reading forums?
My answers are:
1. That my wife and I would have sex with each other more than 20 times in a week because we were turned on with each other all week so much. Usually it’s only a few times a week at home because of life, work etc.
2. That my wife and I would really love and appreciate each other more than ever before. It was crazy good this happened.
3. That it was so awesome to watch women/men transform through the stages in the day from naked-dinner-disco
4. Time to read books and sleep was in some of the plans for some of the week but it never happened. lol
5. Personally – watching my wife dress sexy for theme nights and dance was sooo hot (#1 was her school girl outfit pole dance she gave me)
6. The guests were people that were so open and honest and people we will want to visit in future with our families together.
7. After about 48 hours the nakedness isn’t even noticed…honest! It was fun to see people having fun naked but people being naked was old hat.
8. It’s a turn on to watch how many couples are really really into each other.
9. Its cool to have something to share with your spouse that is your little secret.
10. Leaving the resort knowing I couldn’t wait to go back and be part of it all and another foam party as well.
So where does this leave my conclusion. From my eyes very few people were not naked. Some ladies wore bottoms not because of not wanting to be naked with others but they felt more comfortable for hygiene reasons (nothing wrong either way at all) People were respectful and whether you wanted to be unknown and keep to yourself or be a porn star for a week you could do that. It's a playful , fun and flirty place. Something for everyone!
This is not a well written piece of literature but I just want to get this up and on the forum to share and feel free to ask more questions if you want and I will check it in a few days.
My final summary would be this: You live once. If you have thought about going just do it. You will never regret it. The only people that don't have a great time there are the same people that complain about everything. Being naked was fun. The guests and staff are awesome people! The food will keep you happy as well as the drinks and service. If it ends up not being for you then at least you have done something with your spouse that can be your little secret to enjoy forever. I promise you it will strengthen your relationship and your sexual relationship.
