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D&G-in-love wrote:

ILikefun wrote:As a couple who just spent 4 nights at Desire RM in June we would like to input a little with some thoughts/experiences.

-My wife and I don't go fully nude, she goes topless, he wears very "clingy" shorts, but the privates will always be covered. Why? It leaves something for the imagination and we love to be asked to take off our pants. *devil smiley* Our level of clothing doesn't say anything about our sexual preferences.

Ok, let me start by saying that I realize that Desire is a c/o resort, and that nudity is not required. I acknowledge that it is everybody’s right to wear a swimsuit at Desire. That being said, I will offer my opinion that it really annoys me when people come to Desire and keep their suits on. There are enough textile resorts around, why would you go to a c/o resort and keep your suits on? The only explanation that I could think of before today is that you want to look at nude people but are too shy or too embarrassed to be nude yourself. For me, neither explanation is acceptable. My thinking is you either go nude yourself or you don’t go to a c/o resort.

Now, after reading the post I have quoted above, I see that there’s another possible explanation for why some people would go to a c/o resort but keep their suits on: they want attention. They want others to beg them to take their suits off. Really?? To seek attention like that seems a little immature to me (insert mental image of a child screeching “look at me, mommy, look at me!”). That’s definitely not the type of person/people I would care to be around, but that’s my personal preference.

For the record, if you are at Desire and you keep your swimsuit on for your entire stay, there are going to be people (myself included) that will believe that you’re either a gawker and/or pervert who is there to get an eyeful without exposing himself/herself, or your junk (male or female) is not fit to see the light of day.

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D&G-in-love wrote:

ILikefun wrote:As a couple who just spent 4 nights at Desire RM in June we would like to input a little with some thoughts/experiences.

-My wife and I don't go fully nude, she goes topless, he wears very "clingy" shorts, but the privates will always be covered. Why? It leaves something for the imagination and we love to be asked to take off our pants. *devil smiley* Our level of clothing doesn't say anything about our sexual preferences.

Ok, let me start by saying that I realize that Desire is a c/o resort, and that nudity is not required. I acknowledge that it is everybody’s right to wear a swimsuit at Desire. That being said, I will offer my opinion that it really annoys me when people come to Desire and keep their suits on. There are enough textile resorts around, why would you go to a c/o resort and keep your suits on? The only explanation that I could think of before today is that you want to look at nude people but are too shy or too embarrassed to be nude yourself. For me, neither explanation is acceptable. My thinking is you either go nude yourself or you don’t go to a c/o resort.

Now, after reading the post I have quoted above, I see that there’s another possible explanation for why some people would go to a c/o resort but keep their suits on: they want attention. They want others to beg them to take their suits off. Really?? To seek attention like that seems a little immature to me (insert mental image of a child screeching “look at me, mommy, look at me!”). That’s definitely not the type of person/people I would care to be around, but that’s my personal preference.

For the record, if you are at Desire and you keep your swimsuit on for your entire stay, there are going to be people (myself included) that will believe that you’re either a gawker and/or pervert who is there to get an eyeful without exposing himself/herself, or your junk (male or female) is not fit to see the light of day.

Bruce&Pam wrote:I get it that people are different, but I have to say I totally agree with you about this. I acknowledge that I may be wrong, but that is exactly how I feel, and I figure if I feel that way, there are probably a lot of others that feel the same way about it.
---Bruce

D&G-in-love wrote:Ok, let me start by saying that I realize that Desire is a c/o resort, and that nudity is not required. I acknowledge that it is everybody’s right to wear a swimsuit at Desire. That being said, I will offer my opinion that it really annoys me when people come to Desire and keep their suits on. There are enough textile resorts around, why would you go to a c/o resort and keep your suits on? The only explanation that I could think of before today is that you want to look at nude people but are too shy or too embarrassed to be nude yourself. For me, neither explanation is acceptable. My thinking is you either go nude yourself or you don’t go to a c/o resort.

Now, after reading the post I have quoted above, I see that there’s another possible explanation for why some people would go to a c/o resort but keep their suits on: they want attention. They want others to beg them to take their suits off. Really?? To seek attention like that seems a little immature to me (insert mental image of a child screeching “look at me, mommy, look at me!”). That’s definitely not the type of person/people I would care to be around, but that’s my personal preference.

For the record, if you are at Desire and you keep your swimsuit on for your entire stay, there are going to be people (myself included) that will believe that you’re either a gawker and/or pervert who is there to get an eyeful without exposing himself/herself, or your junk (male or female) is not fit to see the light of day.

Bruce&Pam wrote:I get it that people are different, but I have to say I totally agree with you about this. I acknowledge that I may be wrong, but that is exactly how I feel, and I figure if I feel that way, there are probably a lot of others that feel the same way about it.
---Bruce

SecretSmileToday wrote:

D&G-in-love wrote:Ok, let me start by saying that I realize that Desire is a c/o resort, and that nudity is not required. I acknowledge that it is everybody’s right to wear a swimsuit at Desire. That being said, I will offer my opinion that it really annoys me when people come to Desire and keep their suits on. There are enough textile resorts around, why would you go to a c/o resort and keep your suits on? The only explanation that I could think of before today is that you want to look at nude people but are too shy or too embarrassed to be nude yourself. For me, neither explanation is acceptable. My thinking is you either go nude yourself or you don’t go to a c/o resort.

Now, after reading the post I have quoted above, I see that there’s another possible explanation for why some people would go to a c/o resort but keep their suits on: they want attention. They want others to beg them to take their suits off. Really?? To seek attention like that seems a little immature to me (insert mental image of a child screeching “look at me, mommy, look at me!”). That’s definitely not the type of person/people I would care to be around, but that’s my personal preference.

For the record, if you are at Desire and you keep your swimsuit on for your entire stay, there are going to be people (myself included) that will believe that you’re either a gawker and/or pervert who is there to get an eyeful without exposing himself/herself, or your junk (male or female) is not fit to see the light of day.

Bruce&Pam wrote:I get it that people are different, but I have to say I totally agree with you about this. I acknowledge that I may be wrong, but that is exactly how I feel, and I figure if I feel that way, there are probably a lot of others that feel the same way about it.
---Bruce

Gotta respectfully disagree. We’re naked whenever we get the chance, but we like choice a whole lot. People carry a bunch of judgments they’ve been brought up with, and if it takes them a trip or two to decide their comfort level I want to support them dipping their toes in the water. Not everybody’s a jump right in sort of person.

cfsax_ny wrote:Just a general question from a newbie couple anticipating our first trip. Are the majority of people nude throughout the whole resort, or just the water areas? Do you walk from your room nude or undress at the pool/beach?

tj71903 wrote:

cfsax_ny wrote:Just a general question from a newbie couple anticipating our first trip. Are the majority of people nude throughout the whole resort, or just the water areas? Do you walk from your room nude or undress at the pool/beach?

At the pool it's mostly nude. Some wear bottoms only (this is because you quickly learn the sun likes untanned skin). Very rare to see ladies in full suits. The hot tub is almost fully nude.

Around the resort - walking on paths to and from spa, restaurants, etc - most wear a cover up of some variety. It's not a nudist colony in that sense. Clothes of some variety at dinner/etc.

cfsax_ny wrote:Just a general question from a newbie couple anticipating our first trip. Are the majority of people nude throughout the whole resort, or just the water areas? Do you walk from your room nude or undress at the pool/beach?

WellyFla2020 wrote:

cfsax_ny wrote:Just a general question from a newbie couple anticipating our first trip. Are the majority of people nude throughout the whole resort, or just the water areas? Do you walk from your room nude or undress at the pool/beach?

We were nude from the first step out of the room down to the pool/beach. We brought shorts/Tshirt to breakfast restaurant and also for lunch.

we went so we didn't need to wear clothes.

YMMV

Clothing is just so....confining.

WellyFla2020 wrote:

SecretSmileToday wrote:

D&G-in-love wrote:Ok, let me start by saying that I realize that Desire is a c/o resort, and that nudity is not required. I acknowledge that it is everybody’s right to wear a swimsuit at Desire. That being said, I will offer my opinion that it really annoys me when people come to Desire and keep their suits on. There are enough textile resorts around, why would you go to a c/o resort and keep your suits on? The only explanation that I could think of before today is that you want to look at nude people but are too shy or too embarrassed to be nude yourself. For me, neither explanation is acceptable. My thinking is you either go nude yourself or you don’t go to a c/o resort.

Now, after reading the post I have quoted above, I see that there’s another possible explanation for why some people would go to a c/o resort but keep their suits on: they want attention. They want others to beg them to take their suits off. Really?? To seek attention like that seems a little immature to me (insert mental image of a child screeching “look at me, mommy, look at me!”). That’s definitely not the type of person/people I would care to be around, but that’s my personal preference.

For the record, if you are at Desire and you keep your swimsuit on for your entire stay, there are going to be people (myself included) that will believe that you’re either a gawker and/or pervert who is there to get an eyeful without exposing himself/herself, or your junk (male or female) is not fit to see the light of day.

Bruce&Pam wrote:I get it that people are different, but I have to say I totally agree with you about this. I acknowledge that I may be wrong, but that is exactly how I feel, and I figure if I feel that way, there are probably a lot of others that feel the same way about it.
---Bruce

Gotta respectfully disagree. We’re naked whenever we get the chance, but we like choice a whole lot. People carry a bunch of judgments they’ve been brought up with, and if it takes them a trip or two to decide their comfort level I want to support them dipping their toes in the water. Not everybody’s a jump right in sort of person.

Perhaps, but there are other venues to explore with less infiltration of a clearly Nude environment with majority being nude and in some cases later on in the day, sexually involved either as a couple or more as it might be. In some cases, not all, the perception from those of us that are naked, is one of judgement, which is why D&G seems rather irritated at those who come and stay clothed in a clothing optional environment. Some women I've seen wear a bottom, but are topless. That level of comfort seems acceptable socially. The HotTub is another story. The hidden message is you should be naked. Sexual interaction is optional. It's another level of social more.

I do realize that people carry baggage, but if there's something in your head concerning your body acceptance, perhaps the Hilton Cancun is more your level not Desire?

Epicure3 wrote:The Ritz Carlton and Hilton are just down the road. Why choose a clothing optional swinger friendly resort when you're not interested? Food and amenities are better elsewhere. Also, that whole gawker thing is kinda creepy. You can always pick them out.