Recent empty nesters, newbie vanilla curious couple (maybe not so vanilla now?) Proudly wearing our yellow bracelets. I received so much info from this forum and I wanted to pay it forward for any couple that is considering Desire and doesn’t know what to expect. As far as my travel background, if it matters, 4th trip to Cancun. 7th trip to the Caribbean, all at all inclusive resorts. Our first clothing optional resort.
Age range at Pearl, 30’s - 70’s
A few younger, a couple older. Mostly 40’s and 50’s.
We flew into Hurricane Grace, we landed at Cancun 6:00pm as the winds from Grace started to pick up.
We used the airport concierge service as recommended, VIP Services. We were lucky enough to be the first off the plane and the first to get our luggage in an EMPTY airport, because who flies to a hurricane ? Us. Just a little wind and rain, they told us before we left. Total time from landing to our car with USA Transfer was maybe 20 minutes. USA Transfers was just as ordered, efficient and effective. We may upgrade our ride to VIP next time, but no complaints. 20 more minutes we arrived at Pearl. No waiting for anything and we were checked in and at dinner by 7:15. We somehow avoided the sales pitch completely, and figured it was likely due to staff focused on hurricane prep.
A nice slow dinner at Aphrodite next to the window watching the wind pick up dramatically. Then back to the room and changed to our very first theme night, Lingerie and Ties. A very nervous wife but a champion that dove into the experience for me. We were very glad we dressed up. I highly recommend participating in theme nights. Ladies, go as bold and daring as you can. Two women came to the club totally nude (just heels), and my wife surprised me by dancing with both and having a few sexy kisses with pretty gals throughout the night. You will not regret it. A quick show and then dancing till 11:00 when they shut everything down, Grace had arrived.
My wife slept. I stayed up all night watching Grace. Amazing haw the palm trees survived.
Damage report.
Rained most of the day Thursday.
The window we sat next to at dinner in Aphrodite, gone.
3 clear panels on the sea wall protecting Aphrodite, gone. They removed all the clear panels on Friday.
The end of the patio, Broke.
What pier? Just a few posts in the water.
Beach, destroyed. But they did tell us the nesting turtle had been saved. Beach activities remained hard to come by the rest of the trip - lots of work to be done and we were told the hurricane stole about 4 feet of sand.
The pool bar, full of debris and sand. Sink flipped over, counter for beach torn off. Pool full of seawater.
Lost power for about an hour. Internet down except for lobby. Who needs internet anyway at this place?
Thursday night we ventured out to Pearl for dinner with the rain mostly subsided and had a great meal. Theme night was Glow Night, and the wife went topless under a neon pink net dress. What a gal. We stopped by the jacuzzi for some snogging and drinks and great conversation.
Friday, sun shining. Somehow they had the fun 1/2 the pool 95% cleaned, I don’t know how they managed to clean Aphrodite so fast. This place has the most amazing staff. They worked their asses off.
Friday was an awesome day, great weather, played blackjack at the pool. Be careful if you win, you have to earn your reward from Yuni. I had to have my drink poured down my wife’s back and ass into my mouth. We then shared dinner with new friends at Suki and then Bunnies and Casino night. Then jacuzzi time and then first time having sex in front of people on jacuzzi beds. We were subtly congratulated on a quality performance by a few folks the next day... what has this place done to us?
Erotic Massage on Saturday morning. Both a little hung over. A very anxious wife. We went all in, no restrictions. We had Emilio and Selene for our experience. It WAS an experience. What I expected and what I got were very different. Her leaning in and lightly breathing in my ear as my wife was building her first orgasm was my snapshot. She was very skilled on how to touch and turn me on without it being a hand job. Her touch and tease made me very hard, and hearing my wife climax right next to me was thrilling. Time went by very quickly and before I knew it she placed my hand on my wife, pushed me towards her. We had sex while the Therapists pushed my hips and played with my wife’s clit. My wife says it was a very emotional orgasm. The massage is HIGHLY recommended- I’m sure my wife could tell you more about her experience if you are curious. Her satisfaction rating was two by Emilio and once by me.
We met so many friendly people, we were sad to leave them all behind. The food was great, the Playmakers remembered our names and made my wife feel special on her birthday Saturday, the bartenders were fast and generous, the chair tenders were always happy to help get you set up at the pool - and the other guests were so, so friendly. Many willing to talk about the lifestyle and share stories, my wife enjoyed her birthday kisses from lots of ladies, and she tells me she can’t wait to go back and see where our experiences take us next.
Take your clothes off. Dress sexy at night. Dare to explore your partner in a new space. No one will bite unless you ask. We wanted more time. We will be back.