My wife and I are not in the lifestyle but wanted something sexy and a sexual atmosphere to celebrate our 23rd anniversary. Surprisingly this was her idea. We had gone to an all inclusive for our previous anniversary at Couples Ocho Rios, which we love. It had a nude area but extremely conservative, if that makes sense. We both wanted a step up, not hedonism level but we both think seeing live sex is just damn sexy and a turn on.
After long research, especially the helpful posts on this forum, I told her about Desire Pearl. Again to my surprise she said let’s do it. This was new territory. We both have demanding and high profile jobs and us going to a resort like this is taking a career chance for us both. While we had some initial conversations about this trip, to be on the same page. We both agreed swinging was out of the question. And because it was new territory , she suggested that we scale it back to 4 days instead of the original 7, just in case we found ourselves in situations we couldn't control
The day finally came, with me excited and nervous as hell, not knowing what to expect . This was either going to be the best or worst trip of our lives. Fortunately it turned out to be the former.
We get into Cancun Airport in first class, and we get the travel and took the premium travel that I highly recommend. It was an easy 25 minute drive and helped us relax.
We finally get to the resort and it was beautiful. Check in was extremely easy. We were met with this incredibly sexy scent in the lobby that we later discovered was “Little White Lies” and we purchased some to take home with us. We were set up with coordinator, who was sexy AF, and gave us the lay of the land. She made sure we knew what we were getting in to and was clear that this was a swingers resort and sex would be all around us.
Having a couple of drinks in the lobby really helped as I looked through the lobby doors and saw the first set of naked tits and a semi hard dick flapping side to side. Oh shit we were here, a Master Suite with 2 balconies, one facing the ocean, the other with a crazy view overlooking this crazy hot tub, and a couple doing a 69 on one of the day beds.
We are both a young 52, and every time without exception people always get freaked out when we tell them our age, as most guess that we are in our mid to late 30’s and sometimes 40 at the most.
I’m 6’ 195 with a good build former athlete and still work out and have a good physique. But she stands out way more being 5’10, the longest legs and natural round 42 DDs that look freaking awesome. She thinks she’s overweight but this trip was transformative in the way we both thought about our bodies and sex.
I think the drinks were still working in her, because she said she needed to feel the sun on her body and stripped naked a said let’s go check things out. The grounds were phenomenal and it felt great to take in all
A few takeaways :
1) The range of ages were from late 30’s to 70’s, but majority of the group there were in the late 40’s or older
2) There were all types of bodies- thin, thick, fat, big tits, small tits, a lot of tit jobs, big dicks, little dicks, and everyone was comfortable in their own skin. That was incredible to see
3) There was a crazy lack of diversity. We were the only Black couple and just two of 5 people of color during our entire trip. This wasn’t a big deal, just an observation
4) The porn in the rooms is great
5) The drinks are weak and I’m not a drinker, so maybe bring your own on the way from the airport.
6) It's a pretty laid back crowd
7) Check out all of the shows. They are flat out incredible.
Get the erotic massage- Period- more for her than me, but Dammmm!Everyone was more than friendly enough but we didn’t feel like we didn’t fit in. During the first day and a half, we were met with a few friendly smiles, but not really getting the vibe that I read so many times of how everyone made you feel at home and everyone was accepted. It wasn’t quite there. The staff was absolutely great and really tried hard help us but not quite there. That was until we met the star of the show had to be the guy we both call the Mayor of Pearl.
The playmakers were getting the crowd pumped with a squeeze bottle of chocolate syrup putting it on various tits of women in the pool.
The Mayor sees my wife and I, walks over and introduces himself because he sees our newbie wristbands. He tells us he’s happy we finally made it over to the action side. He calls over 2 more guys and 2 women who compliment my wife on how great she looks and how beautiful her tits are. With her height, the girls were floating right on top of the water when she stood up. The Mayor tells us that we have to have the newbie initiation. He gets the bartender to give us “newbie initiation” shots. He comes back with the shots along with the bottle of chocolate syrup.
My wife is cautiously game and goes with the flow. He leads my wife to the pool bar and she climbs up. He squirts the chocolate syrup all over her tits and says that it’s up to me to lick em clean. What he could not know was my wife is one of the rare people that only orgasms from her tits and from giving blowjobs. She was already warmed up from me massaging the nipples on the daybed just before we got in the pool.
I go over and get to work with the entire pool cheering me as I suck the chocolate of long and slow as she moaned. Along with 42 DDs, she has some of the firmest and biggest nipples you can find and they they show when she’s excited. The Mayor asked her if he could get the other one, which to my surprise she agreed and I was completely ok with. Now having 2 people sucking chocolate off her tits she came pretty hard right on the bar. I’m realizing at this point we both have a little bit of exhibitionist in us and we proved this a few times over the course of the trip.
The Mayor then told me it was my turn (which scared me at first), and told me I had change positions and get on the bar. One of the women in the pool then doused my rock hard dick with chocolate, and told my wife to make her proud. My wife took me in and started blowing me in a way that created a domino effect and caused almost every woman in the pool to start blowing whatever guy was next to them.
As she was going down on me she came again pretty hard and blew me just before the point of me erupting. She whispered in my ear that she was gonna take me up to the room f**k me unconscious. This was the ultimate icebreaker. Everyone made us promise to be at the hot tub later. From this point on we had no problem being a part of the crowd.
We met in the hot tub later where we were greeted with a new cheer. As we entered the hot tub, it seemed like a new vacation. The Mayor greeted us, (well really my wife) with a couple of tequila shots. He asked if he could give her a “Desire Kiss”, which was a temporary tattoo on her her tits. (Don’t ask me where he had them).She was game and he placed the tattoo which was a red kiss, and he took the liberty to take a quick suck on both her nipples. While she had no interest in him at all, it was a turn on for her. It might have helped that while he was doing this, she was wet enough for me to slide 3 fingers in her pussy from behind.
A little later, probably one of the most attractive women I had seen on the resort for the last couple of days approached me to tell me that her and her husband were watching us and wanted to know if we would consider getting meeting them for dinner to get to know each other and possibly maybe playing with them. We accepted the dinner happily but explained that we were not part of the lifestyle, which was still cool with them. This turned out to be one of the best dinner conversations we ever had with another couple.
Even though they knew we were not going to have sex with them, we played a little game. The woman asked my wife if she could share what she would have done if she had been able to f**k me. My wife was very cool with that. And it was sexy AF!! What I wasn’t ready for was my wife asking me if it was ok telling the other husband how she would have fucked him as she stroked my dick under the table. This was the hottest thing I have ever heard in my life and the guy actually started to turn red as she was describing it. Later on in the room, my wife acted out everything on me that she said to the other guy and I lost track of how many times I came.
Right there, it made me realize how important communication was. I can see from this point after a couple of days of being turned on constantly in this sexually charged atmosphere, that sex can just happen. Before this trip, I thought I would be jealous if another man touched my wife, I actually had the opposite reaction. I wanted her to be fulfilled and if she came to me and said she wanted to do maybe a soft swap, it would have been cool to see her get all she wanted sexually. It is both sexy and dangerous at the same time, so be careful especially if your relationship is not air tight. We were probably not mature enough to do this in our 30’s While we didn’t swap with anyone on this trip and we have no regrets, there is a thin line. And if it did happen, we would have been ok with it.
I wrote about the above, because these were the moments that was the start of us opening our minds and letting go of the boundaries regarding sex.
While there is sooo much more that happened on this trip that included sex in all areas of the resort including the daybeds, the beach, the spa, playroom, and the swap that almost happened, and most definitely the erotic massage which made us book right after for next November.
That said this was our best vacation ever and we can’t wait to get back in November.
