I would like to thank everyone on this board for their guidance and insights--- this was our first trip to as CO resort. We just returned from 4 nights of great fun, dancing, food, laughter, alone time and recharging to our mind, body and spirit. All portions of the trip were terrific-- pool, bar, jacuzzi. The staff ALWAYS went out of their way to help us or grant a request. I did tip (I know this comes up from time to time) the following:
Pool lounger staff $10 day
Pool Drink waitress $10 day
Pool/ Jacuzzi bar staff $5 day
Dinner wait staff $20 day
Breakfast wait staff $5 day
Room Attendant $5 day
I feel they were worth every dollar and could not have been more appreciative. Our room was a junior suite first floor that was outstanding and perfectly situated for sunrise.
I will skip our day to day schedules and get to the fun stuff. Up until about one month prior to the trip my wife was talking about wearing one piece bathing suits. I did NOT push the issue, just went with the flow. About two weeks out she started asking me what she needed for the disco and if I wanted to help her pick out some new bikinis ! We bought 4 new bikinis and she packed some very HOT lingerie and club wear for the disco. Upon arrival I started to get some butterflies thinking what had I gotten us into-- after check in we went to our room and I walked outside naked. I then put my swim suit on and she put on her bikini and we went to the pool area. At this point (about 5:30) everyone was at the jacuzzi-- I said to her"lets just stay at the pool for you to get your feet wet". She said she would rather go to the jacuzzi--- when we walked up the stairs a couple was having sex in the bed near the stairs. I removed my swim suit and to my surprise she removed her top!! After about a hour in the water she removed her bottoms and wanted to use one of the beds!!!! This fun sexy attitude went on the entire trip, sex outside our room on the bed with people walking by, etc, etc, ETC!!!
I think it came down to not pushing her and letting her go at her own pace. Needless to say, she was topless the rest of the trip and bottomless often. We even entered the Human Sundae contest !!! If anyone would like any info on the disco (I was pulled onto the stage and stipped NAKED by the female police officer!!), restaurants, pool, jacuzzi, etc please feel free to PM me. We were "hit on" by some lifestylers, but a polite statement that we did not swing was acknowledged and never an issue.
At the end of the trip we helped a woman that was having a seizure in the lobby-- We helped her through the seizure but needed to leave her with the staff before the ambulance arrived-- Anyone know how she is doing?? I asked my wife if she would return and I received a "SURE"- Why not from her. We had a GREAT time falling deeper in love after 20 years of marriage.