No longer newbies!
0 to 600 mph in one week! So, first the staff, facilities and food are awesome; not the four seasons but really really enjoyable! We are 42 (hot female) and 50 fit male. We got to the resort and our luggage didn't, so what do you do but rip off the band-aide and go to the beach beds and get naked, followed by cocktails at the quiet end, followed by happy hour in the hot tub. We had some situation awareness from forum and just said bring it! We are going to have fun! And boy did they bring it. We knew it wouldn't take us long to integrate and it didn't because we felt right at home and started making friends. We are not in the lifestyle nor had we swapped but we had previously discussed what the probable scenarios were when we engaged! We were right! Anyway we pretty much filled the score card with naked, PDA, PDS (jacuzzi beds, several times) etc. The only advice is be prepared for engagement, not to say you have to have our approach because we knew no means no, but be prepared to say no or better yet just move on to a better vibe. The people are very friendly and very confident just be the same. A great story is I'm (male) talking to a guy about nipple piercings and he insists I come check his wife's out as she naps on a Jacuzzi bed. Without hesitation she reaches out and ask me to lay on her and check them out. She and "they" were glorious! Just very unpretentious and friendly! The bottom line is have a plan, communicate with your SO and let it rip!
K & T