Newbies and First Timers to DP Report - April 2016

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Newbies and First Timers to DP Report - April 2016

Postby mikeandkim » Fri Apr 29, 2016 3:54 pm

Well where to begin. This was a big jump for us. Kim and I have never been a part of the lifestyle scene, never been to C/O anything and never been to Mexico! But something possessed us to go to DP. If you’re newbies like we were then my first advice is to discuss with your spouse what is okay and not okay. I don't think making those decisions on the fly is a good plan. Also, get involved with a forum that is specific to month of your trip. We actually made friends with a couple that were going the same time as us. Matter of fact, they lived about 4 hours from our home so we meet in between for dinner and dancing. It was a great way to get to know someone before leaving. We also had really great IM conversations with another couple (aka Bob and Candy) that made us feel really comfortable about our decision. They kept telling us that people are very respectful, know one will judge and just do what's comfortable. I really relied on their feedback because they had been to DP many times. He made one comment that stuck in my mind. He bet me that we would be naked within 45 minutes of getting to the resort. LOL, I couldn't imagine that would happen.

So we swallowed of fears and anxiety and with nervous excitement we boarded our plane to Mexico. We landed at 11 a.m. and were greeted at baggage pickup by a chauffeur holding a card with our name. He quickly helped us to our transportation and whisked us away to DP. It was a relatively short drive to DP. Upon arrival we were greeted by the staff and escorted inside to a nice air-conditioned lobby. Since it was our first time we filled out some forms and picked up some discount coupons. During that time we were served champagne. I explained to the gentleman that was providing an orientation of the grounds and events that it was our first time. He got really big eyed and said, "You are going to have the time of your life". I said just keep pouring the champagne. He looked at my wife and said, "you know this whole resort is about the ladies". I was not sure what he meant by that but later I completely understood!!

A staff member escorted us to our suite, which was nice, spacious and had a nice balcony view of the pool. They asked us what we would like stocked in the mini frig. We looked around the room then unpacked. Kim put on her see through bikini and I put on my European style trunks and we headed toward the pool. In route we ran into a staff member who couldn't help but notice we were lost, lol. He escorted us to the pool, handed us off to another staff member who helped us find a really comfortable 2-person couch near the pool. The scene was truly stunning, sand, palm trees, swim up bar, seaside covered couches and of course the ocean. Oh, and lots of naked and semi naked people.

Well we got comfortable had a couple more drinks and Kim announced, “it’s time”. I looked at my watch and it took 25 minutes for her to take her top off, lol I guess Bob was right!

Bob did make a point to tell us that depending on the crowd their experience has been different each trip. I will say, the vast majority of men were naked and about 75% of the ladies were completely nude while the other 25% were topless.

The friends we met showed up about 2 hours after we checked in. They power drank for a little while and joined us to play naked water volleyball. The sun, smell of seawater, pool, naked bodies splashing and lots of laughter what a great time!!! Oh, just fyi, other than naked people sunbathing or talking you wont’ see much sex at the pool. In fact, its discourage. Well except for the occasional body shots or whip cream game.

By this time we needed food. The options are plenty. Order and eat poolside, grab an excellent plate of food from the outdoor grill or dine inside the glass-enclosed restaurant. Just fyi, ladies be sure to bring a cover up and/or a sarong with you. It’s required to eat inside and guys I would say a sarong is most convenient.

Of course, during the day they have lots of activities to keep everyone occupied or you can chill by the pool or ocean. The activity staff is really good and entertaining. Just fyi, the staff is never naked.

You have many options for dinner. The food is consistently good. The Asian fusion restaurant had limited opening and required reservations, so be sure to make that reservation when you first arrive. Our experience was the ladies took dinner as an opportunity to really were a sexy outfit they couldn’t necessarily wear out at home. The rule of thumb was tight and low cut. Very sexy. Guys was closed toe shoes, slacks and button down shirt. Sexy food and sexy women I was beginning to understand about “it’s about the ladies” comment.

What turned out to be one of our favorite events were the themed parties at the disco. Kim found most of her themed clothing on yandy.com and discountstripper.com. She loves to dance and well let’s just say it was amazing. It was a little like the dance club scene in the movie basic instinct – sultry, sexy and steamy.

Now to the activity that usually causes the most anxiety and/or fun. The huge hot tub is surrounded with private beds. It typically opens around 6 but didn’t really start hopping until after the disco shuts down. If you spend time looking around you definitely see plenty but really we were having such a good time talking with the 2 couples we meet through the forum and a couple we met there we really didn’t notice what others were doing. Believe me you have so much fun during the day there’s lots to talk and laugh about at the hot tub.

The above was how our days and nights went. For me it took the second night before I would take my trunks off at the hot tub and 4th before I was completely naked at the pool. Kim was always totally nude in the hot tub and by the 4th day at the pool. So for us it was a slow progression based on how we felt. We never felt pressured by anyone nor were we inappropriately approached by anyone. In short, none of my fears came true and all the best possible scenarios did.

Here’s a few must do’s. You must do the erotic message!! When we go back the first week in September we plan to get an erotic message earlier in our stay. Let me tell you it is a mind-blowing experience. Girls be sure to ask for Oscar. I don’t want to give away to much but it was one of the highlights of our trip!

Also, do the erotic pictures or if you are really into it do the erotic video. We did the pictures and let me tell you they were amazing!!!

Lastly, we wanted to do the C/O catamaran but the boat was in for maintenance. I can tell you that we will be doing that for sure on our next trip!!!

Just a few other do’s. Take a small thermos for water and such. The drinks get hot pretty quick. Take some bug spray. Although we didn’t have any problems at all, you can depending on the time of year. 100% Aloe Vera for sunburns, comfortable sandals and water shoes if you plan to get in the ocean or play lots of water volleyball. I also plan to take a 10 pack of 5-hour energy, lol.
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Re: Newbies and First Timers to DP Report - April 2016

Postby Fitgator » Fri May 06, 2016 9:00 pm

Thank you for the review! Nice to hear that there is no pressure!
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Re: Newbies and First Timers to DP Report - April 2016

Postby SteveandChris » Fri Jul 01, 2016 12:18 pm

Thanks for the great review. Leaving tomorrow for the first time and this was most reassuring.
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Re: Newbies and First Timers to DP Report - April 2016

Postby BandP » Sat Jul 02, 2016 9:53 am

We love reading newbie trip reports...yours is excellent and I think generally in line with most first-timers. We were in your shoes last year and overcame our fears to have a blast. Returning for trip #2 next month. By the way, your avatar is gorgeous! Something about us Texan's and Mexico...
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Re: Newbies and First Timers to DP Report - April 2016

Postby Notmagicmike » Sun Jul 03, 2016 5:13 pm

Great write up. This is the first my wife had looked or read anything on these forums. She was curious as to what the erotic message was. Lol
I'm sure its the dam auto correct
Still while before we go.
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