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We just returned from the most wonderful vacation we have ever taken. As the title states, we are not lifestyles and this trip didn't change this. We met great friends through different groups prior to the trip, many in the lifestyle and variations in between. For us, it was never a big deal for us or them. We were always comfortable around each other in the pool, hot tub, disco, etc. for me and my wife, it was our first clothing optional and open sex environment. We were naked within one minute of Victor providing us with great chairs. That first night, we made our way to the evening hot tub and had amazing sex on the jacuzzi beds. This became a daily ritual. We would play with each other in the pool and on the beds during on the mild pool side some days. This is the most sensual, erotic environment that you can visit. We found Pearl to be laid back. We were approached daily multiple times and we let folks know we weren't in the lifestyle and it never stopped us from having great conversations. They would ask why we weren't in the lifestyle and we could ask what drives them and also talk about family, experiences, etc. we were very nervous going into this vacation and probably read and planned too much. We went in with boundaries and should have taken it little more day to day although the boundaries weren't up for debate. The wife and I did pussy body shots on the jacuzzi bar several times and I licked chocolate off of her on several occasions. One night, she did let a female friend lick some whipped cream and chocolate from her boobs but that was as far as we went other than a few friendly kisses and boob rubs in the hot tub or pool. If you are not sure this is for you, if ask yourself if you are comfortable with public nudity, sexuality and public sex. If you can get comfortable with those and many other sexual erotic things, then this place is for you. Every day is different at Pearl.
One evening we were the only couple at the hot tub bar and the next night there blow jobs galore and girl on girl strap on action. It definitely does vary day to day as new guests arrive. The schedule of Pearl can be a little overwhelming. You do not have to participate in everything. We are mid 40s and found it can wear you down over six days. 4-5 hours of sleep and all day action and alcohol take its toll. Be sure to mix in water and take a nap if you can. Watch out for foods that could be undercooked like hamburgers. Be careful, and you should be fine. I had some stomach issues but nothing that kept me from having a fantastic time. The food was very good. Order all that you want as portions are small at dinner at both restaurants.
If you are into open sex, the playroom is fun after the disco. Some night we were the only couple in there and others there were multiple couples.

We did the erotic massage. We enjoyed it. I'll let you make your own judgement on that one but it does includes full genital touching and ends very happy.

We want to thank victor, graciliano, Mariano, Marco, Bella, Emily, Kia, Ruben, Emilio, Jesus and Antonio for the best service we have ever had. We could name others but you guys made it special and everyone made it amazing. The daily activities were fun to watch or participate in and the nightly shows and performers were great.

You can make this trip whatever you want it to be. Make sure you are both on the same page going in and talk daily and nightly for any changes. You can make this the most sexually charged vanilla trip that you can take as a couple and meet great open minded non judgmental people.

Outstanding report. Really wish we could have met you two. Maybe next year.


- The Lion Sleeps at the Foot of Minerva

Sounds like you are at least Cherry Vanilla now

Very nice report....so, is a second trip being planned yet?

Maybe we added a little cherry swirl. We are definitely going back. At this point, I don't know that we will visit another place in the near future. The freedom and warmness that we felt at Pearl is unlike anything we have ever experienced. We will go back as many times as possible. Vanilla or Neapolitan, it doesn't matter. Everyone is welcome.

New-to-co wrote:As the title states, we are not lifestyles and this trip didn't change this. We met great friends through different groups prior to the trip, many in the lifestyle and variations in between.

You guys sound like us...you could just about overlay our experience based upon our first DP/CO week in late April. We loved it so much, met such great people with whom we are still communicating and planning, we will be back this Fall.

Drop us a note...we are in Colorado, well, we live in Colorado he works in OH...so we are back and forth or somewhere in-between....in fact, she is flying out this weekend to Cleveland now that the city has returned to normal post-RNC.

Thanks!

B & J

Very cool report, New-to-co. We like your spirit and your willingness to enjoy yourselves in this wonderful, open environment (in the way you want for yourselves).

New-to-co wrote:We are mid 40s and found it can wear you down over six days. 4-5 hours of sleep and all day action and alcohol take its toll. Be sure to mix in water and take a nap if you can.

Love the T/R good advice about the nap and watching the water, we limit our trips to quick weekend getaways :-)

Sounds like what we are looking for. We went to hedo last march and hated it. It was packed with groups. One group that was there was terrible. Mostly 40-50 year old crowd but acted like they were 20 which we didn't care for. They did not respect others and more than once were asked not to touch. We had to move rooms and avoid the nude side to keep from being molested. Desire Pearl sounds like it is more our speed and liking. Thanks for the review.

For anyone, which time of the year is best to avoid group takeovers? I'm guess the first 4 months of the year are busiest and it may slow down after that. Any info would be appreciated.

Thanks

Thanks for the responses. We have a return trip planned in January. It's ISM and we plan to have a great time with everyone. We will go and come back vanilla (maybe a sprinkle or two) but that's the beauty of Pearl, everyone is welcome and the people are the best, most genuine folks you will ever meet. If you wonder if people are looking to connect, of course they are, but a simple we aren't in the lifestyle turns the conversation in different directions. we love it and plan to Go twice a year if finances allow. We aren't even thinking of planning another textile vacation as a couple. To fill the gaps between trips, we are going to try Caliente Tampa this week. We are hooked

New-to-co wrote:Maybe we added a little cherry swirl. We are definitely going back. At this point, I don't know that we will visit another place in the near future. The freedom and warmness that we felt at Pearl is unlike anything we have ever experienced. We will go back as many times as possible. Vanilla or Neapolitan, it doesn't matter. Everyone is welcome.

We found that it ruined all of the other "vanilla" vacations we have taken since we first visited Pearl. Knowing you have to keep your clothes on and only have sex in your room with the door closed is so sad .

Just returned from our second trip and we had another great time. We are already booked again in July 2017. This trip is much like our first. We still consider ourselves vanilla but when things happened, they were spontaneous and wonderful. We had a few random encounters, but nothing planned or formal. This was perfect for us as we continue down our personL journey to whatever we are comfortable with as a couple. We found most people to be respectful. We've learned enough from our lifestyle friends to not be naive to those that are overly aggressive. We had one aggressive couple that used the wife as the gatherer of different women and attempted to pull them into a sandwich for her and her husband. We wised up quickly but saw several unsuspecting women placed in uncomfortable situations. Other than this, we found most people very friendly and open minded. The beauty of Pearl is the ability to talk with complete strangers that become quick friends about topics that are not so easy to discuss in everyday life. Btw, the new restaurant, Unik, was delicious. You must make reservations at breakfast, but it's well worth it. The louder side of the pool was heated and felt great. The foam party on Saturday was great fun again. Most people stayed to themselves as couples, but everyone seemed to have a great time.

Since this was ISM, there was sex classes during the day in the disco. We took one class with Lola Bastinado and enjoyed learning a few things about BDSM. There was also a class on G spot stimulation and squirting on Saturday. All in all, January was a great time to visit Pearl and reconnect as a couple.

New-to-co wrote:Just returned from our second trip and we had another great time. We are already booked again in July 2017. This trip is much like our first. We still consider ourselves vanilla but when things happened, they were spontaneous and wonderful. We had a few random encounters, but nothing planned or formal. This was perfect for us as we continue down our personL journey to whatever we are comfortable with as a couple. We found most people to be respectful. We've learned enough from our lifestyle friends to not be naive to those that are overly aggressive. We had one aggressive couple that used the wife as the gatherer of different women and attempted to pull them into a sandwich for her and her husband. We wised up quickly but saw several unsuspecting women placed in uncomfortable situations. Other than this, we found most people very friendly and open minded. The beauty of Pearl is the ability to talk with complete strangers that become quick friends about topics that are not so easy to discuss in everyday life. Btw, the new restaurant, Unik, was delicious. You must make reservations at breakfast, but it's well worth it. The louder side of the pool was heated and felt great. The foam party on Saturday was great fun again. Most people stayed to themselves as couples, but everyone seemed to have a great time.

Since this was ISM, there was sex classes during the day in the disco. We took one class with Lola Bastinado and enjoyed learning a few things about BDSM. There was also a class on G spot stimulation and squirting on Saturday. All in all, January was a great time to visit Pearl and reconnect as a couple.

J & L: It was so nice to finally meet you both in person, after communicating with you via the forum and email prior to our trip. T and I appreciate the tips you provided for us prior to our trip. We had such a great time. Although we had so much fun socializing with everyone, the best part of this vacation was the time that T and I spent alone. We feel so much closer as a couple and can't wait to go back again

New-to-co wrote:Thanks for the responses. We have a return trip planned in January. It's ISM and we plan to have a great time with everyone. We will go and come back vanilla (maybe a sprinkle or two) but that's the beauty of Pearl, everyone is welcome and the people are the best, most genuine folks you will ever meet. If you wonder if people are looking to connect, of course they are, but a simple we aren't in the lifestyle turns the conversation in different directions. we love it and plan to Go twice a year if finances allow. We aren't even thinking of planning another textile vacation as a couple. To fill the gaps between trips, we are going to try Caliente Tampa this week. We are hooked

And how was Caliente Tampa when compared to Pearl?

Caliente is nice but it is not like Pearl. It's a completely different setup than the intimacy of Pearl. We enjoy d caliente but they do limit PDA which is something that we enjoy. Also, Pearl is all inclusive where caliente is not. We would go back to caliente between trips to Pearl, but there is nothing like Pearl.