F***ing Fantastic Trip for Newbies, Jan. 2018
Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2018 12:46 am
Well we had the rollercoaster ride of emotions before we packed, before we got on the plane, before we got to the resort and before we went to our first dress up night...what a WASTE of time worrying about NOTHING! We had NEVER been to a nudist resort, let alone a swingers resort, well let us tell you, we are converted forever!
We loved every minute of it! We spent months reading the forums before we embarked on our journey to build up our confidence and really to get a sense that we were not alone in our vanilla ways. I had psyched myself up for months that i would "drop my gear" the moment i got to the pool on they first day.... i wanted to surprise my husband with my 'wild' ways... well I DID IT! And was he surprised! LOL! It took him a few days to join in with being totally naked, i think he was afraid he would get wood in the pool, or worse get shrinkage in the pool, so he played it cool for a bit. When he finally got in the commando spirit, there was no turning back! Keep in mind we had NEVER been nudists before! There were so many ages and body types that it was really not a problem settling into the freedom of it.
The dress up or theme nights were an absolute BLAST, I totally encourage both husband and wife to embrace the experience and wear the theme night outfits. We had such fun picking them out before we even left home!
Before we left home we lived the life of a happily monogamous couple. Our kids have grown up and left home, i wouldn't say we were bored with each other at all, we just were open to new experiences as long as they were safe and we were together. Hence, our user name InItTogether. While we fully embraced the nudist aspect of the resort, we only dabbled in the 'lifestyle' . We had a bit of fun with a few couples in the hot-tub, but we made sure to keep our boundaries in check and watched for clues from each other that we were saying within those boundaries. Another thing we have discovered is that we not only love being nude but we each really get off on seeing each other walk around the pool deck or swish up to the swim up bar. Having other people look lustfully or admiringly at your partner is a real turn on.
We are home now and our nightly pillow talk, daily texts at work and dinner talk have all gone back to the fact that we both can't wait to get back to Desire! We did live our week there to the fullest, we participated in every theme night, enjoyed the shows, danced until our feet hurt and then ended the night in the hot tub until 3 o4 a.m. .... we did this EVERY NIGHT!! We have NEVER danced every night on any vacation EVER!!! The atmosphere led us to enjoy each other physically every single day as well... very nice.
We were so impressed with the numerous amazing couples we met here! We felt like everyone we met was respectful to the fact that we were new and just getting our feet wet in the 'lifestyle' BTW, we went in January which is ISM.... international swingers month....OMG!!! How totally hilarious and intimidating that we accidentally chose that month to 'dive in'! LOL!!
We live life with the understanding and belief that we don't know how long we have on this planet, so we want to live life to its fullest with no regrets! We encourage all newbies to dive in and live it, no regrets, but you MUST TALK, if you have a feeling good or bad, talk about it, don't let it fester and do you in, TALK, LOVE , LIVE .... DESIRE brought out the best in us and has continued to do this every day since we have been back... hope the feeling lasts until we go there again
We loved every minute of it! We spent months reading the forums before we embarked on our journey to build up our confidence and really to get a sense that we were not alone in our vanilla ways. I had psyched myself up for months that i would "drop my gear" the moment i got to the pool on they first day.... i wanted to surprise my husband with my 'wild' ways... well I DID IT! And was he surprised! LOL! It took him a few days to join in with being totally naked, i think he was afraid he would get wood in the pool, or worse get shrinkage in the pool, so he played it cool for a bit. When he finally got in the commando spirit, there was no turning back! Keep in mind we had NEVER been nudists before! There were so many ages and body types that it was really not a problem settling into the freedom of it.
The dress up or theme nights were an absolute BLAST, I totally encourage both husband and wife to embrace the experience and wear the theme night outfits. We had such fun picking them out before we even left home!
Before we left home we lived the life of a happily monogamous couple. Our kids have grown up and left home, i wouldn't say we were bored with each other at all, we just were open to new experiences as long as they were safe and we were together. Hence, our user name InItTogether. While we fully embraced the nudist aspect of the resort, we only dabbled in the 'lifestyle' . We had a bit of fun with a few couples in the hot-tub, but we made sure to keep our boundaries in check and watched for clues from each other that we were saying within those boundaries. Another thing we have discovered is that we not only love being nude but we each really get off on seeing each other walk around the pool deck or swish up to the swim up bar. Having other people look lustfully or admiringly at your partner is a real turn on.
We are home now and our nightly pillow talk, daily texts at work and dinner talk have all gone back to the fact that we both can't wait to get back to Desire! We did live our week there to the fullest, we participated in every theme night, enjoyed the shows, danced until our feet hurt and then ended the night in the hot tub until 3 o4 a.m. .... we did this EVERY NIGHT!! We have NEVER danced every night on any vacation EVER!!! The atmosphere led us to enjoy each other physically every single day as well... very nice.
We were so impressed with the numerous amazing couples we met here! We felt like everyone we met was respectful to the fact that we were new and just getting our feet wet in the 'lifestyle' BTW, we went in January which is ISM.... international swingers month....OMG!!! How totally hilarious and intimidating that we accidentally chose that month to 'dive in'! LOL!!
We live life with the understanding and belief that we don't know how long we have on this planet, so we want to live life to its fullest with no regrets! We encourage all newbies to dive in and live it, no regrets, but you MUST TALK, if you have a feeling good or bad, talk about it, don't let it fester and do you in, TALK, LOVE , LIVE .... DESIRE brought out the best in us and has continued to do this every day since we have been back... hope the feeling lasts until we go there again