Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

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Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby enticing » Wed Jun 12, 2019 7:04 pm

Transformed by Desire Evan and Sharon (AKA “The Newlyweds)

First Trip, Day 1: Sharon has always been very conservative, we are not young, this is a second marriage for both of us and we are AKA “the newlyweds”. I had been to Desire many years ago and I very much wanted to return. But Sharon said a hundred times, “I will never be nude in front of other people, ever.” She finally agreed to go to Desire as a very special gift to me. Several times in the month prior to the trip, she considered cancelling. Perhaps, in retrospect, I should have selected another month as her first experience. It was January, “Swingers’ Month” (Lifestyle), “We Love to Share” was the motto. I almost lost her in the lobby when they explained that “Cuchi-Cuchi” was allowed anywhere on the resort grounds or beach for Lifestyles Month.
On the day we arrived she was like a “dear in the headlights”, in pants and a long sleeve sweater at the pool for the first hour. People would stop and smile and ask, “New here?” Sharon finally started chatting with a lovely topless lady in the next chase longue and they found common feelings about removing their clothes. That helped Sharon become more relaxed and comfortable and gad a positive attitude about being there. She eventually took off her top and exposed her amazing breasts and she wore a bathing suit bottom that first afternoon.
Later the first day we went to the Jacuzzi pool and watched the others in amazement as they chatted naked and engaged in various PDA and PDS. Sharon clung to me for security. Each Jacuzzi bed had an amazing show. Like a different porn channel on each bed all around us. At first Sharon was in shock and disbelief, but she slowly started to enjoy the environment and we were both aroused. Sharon witnessed body shots on several women and one guy. Several couples made love in the Jacuzzi very close to us. Sharon was amazed and watched trying to process the erotic sights while consuming several drinks, but constantly hugging me as a security blanket. Sharon stated firmly: “I will die before I have sex in front of other people”. The remainder of the evening was spent together becoming familiar with the sexy resort and enjoying watching the people and each other. We felt alive, younger and a bit giddy. Desire and the people are magic or are they intoxicating?

Day2: Spent day at the pool, Sharon now topless and more comfortable and enjoying the experience and people even more. She was chatting with others, not really conscious of the fact she was topless.
We went to Jacuzzi area early and Sharon was turned on by others having sex all around us on each bed. Sharon became very aroused and requested I closed the curtains. We made love on the Jacuzzi bed with 60 people in the pool, just feet away from us. It was an amazing experience.
That evening Sharon wore a lingerie for the theme night, something she would never do. We returned to the Jacuzzi after dinner and watched other couples making love so it was easy and natural to do the same. Chatting with other naked couples now seemed normal. What a difference a day at Desire makes!

Day 3: To the pool for some sun and chatting with other couples. Sharon finally removed her wet swimsuit bottoms and we went to swim-up-bar and watched pool games.
In the afternoon we returned to Jacuzzi bed and started to make love. When I went to close the curtains, Sharon said, “don’t bother” and we made love in full view to about 50 people in the Jacuzzi pool just feet from our bed. Sharon earned a thumb’s up from the guests in the Jacuzzi.

Day 4: Sharon received an “Achievement Award”, from me, for her being present for all the events and letting herself enjoy the “Nekked Experience”. Other guests commented in a supportive fashion how much she evolved and was “Transformed” in just 4 days. She was anxious to come back to Desire and insisted we return in less than 2 months. Days later she was still giggly from the experiences … No more wet bathing suit vacations for Sharon.

Trip 2: Day 1-2 Nude all day and at the Foam Party. It was fun for everyone that watched Sharon and another woman riding a big inflatable unicorn float. A playmaker pored Champaign over Sharon’s boobs and we both were thrilled as I licked it off.

Day 3: We went to the beach Palapas and Sharon was nude for the first time on a beach. People walked down the beach only feet from us at the water’s edge. We went into the ocean and embraced and made love for a long time while others were not far away in the ocean or walking on the beach. It was an amazing experience.
Later that day, we joined 4 other couples to play “Sexy Darts”. We were taunted our mates with touch, BJ, doggy position and even face sitting while throwing darts. Sharon did it all. The other couples that played with us, the people in the pool and on the deckchairs could see Sharon was enjoying the experience. One young couple stopped and commented they wanted to be like us when they were older. Many people commented later that day on how much she was “Transformed by Desire” and they enjoyed watching her evolve.
We went to the Jacuzzi beds early to have sex, aroused from “performing” in front of the other guests. There were a few couple that were there and rotated in and out of the Jacuzzi beds. We would have intimacy 4 times a day that day and the next. Once was even in the room. Which led Sharon to ask ironically: “Why can’t all these people just screw in their rooms?”

Day 4: More fun at the Jacuzzi and on the Jacuzzi beds.
Sharon had become known at the resort by the guests and the Play Makers, and others comment on how she has “come out of her shell” or was “Transformed by Desire” Other guests and playmakers know her from dancing in the court yard and disco and other visible games and public displays of intimacy. She really enjoying herself. Others guests commented they liked watching her enjoy the various experiences. The comments they shared with Sharon just increased her confidence. The support that the other ladies at Desire gave to Sharon cannot be over-stated. They were wonderful and aided in Sharon’s transition. I owe them many thanks.

In the matter of a few days Sharon went from, “I will never be nude in front of other people, ever” and “I will die before I have sex in front of other people” to not only willing doing both but enjoying the many new experiences. Sharon embraced the experience and was having a fantastic time with the resort and especially the great people. Only I could really appreciate (first hand) how much she was “Transformed by Desire”. It was awesome to watch and thrilling to be part of the experience.

Who knows what delights the next trip will bring? Never say never! We are both looking forward to our next adventures, as we have booked six trips in 1 year! What surprises can she have in store for my Birthday gift trip in late June and our Independence Day trip in July?!?
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby Sexy R & D » Wed Jun 12, 2019 8:14 pm

Great Trip report Evan and Sharon! :L We were also “Transformed by Desire” we have had some topless beach experiences long ago and we have had some sexy experiences with friends in the past. Not full LS experiences but we have shared hotel rooms with sexy friends of ours in the past two beds so more just giving each other a show. So when we went on our first trip with what we thought would be strangers there was a long list of things we were not willing to do or partake in at all. We discussed our boundaries before leaving we actually made a questionnaire with all kinds of scenarios on it with multiple boxes to select. From “no way in hell” to “need to have long talk first” to “sure let’s try it”... We filled them out separately then compared notes, let just say there was very few “let’s try it” on our list. We also met some wonderful couples that guided us through our rookie trip. One couple inperticular they were the first couple we met and the last people we seen at the airport on our way home. Desire people are great and it was the guests( not strangers) that transformed us!! We just found that list in our safe two days ago read it and laughed our asses off let’s just say we did a bunch of the “no way in hell’s”

Happy for you two!! We will talk more when we see you in person in July!! PS our mentors will be there too, they are an awesome couple!!
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby rykerw1701 » Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:54 am

Looks like you guys are going to have company around Independence day as we're there then too, after a 2 year absence from Pearl. I think it might take us all of 20 seconds to feel comfortable again.

Look forward to meeting new people!
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby SteveNMary » Mon Jul 01, 2019 1:26 pm

Awesome trip and very good to know. We are also on our second marriage. 3 year anniversary this summer. Wife loves to wear skimpy bikinis and go topless when possible. We’ve talked about the clothing optional resorts and she’s not too keen on it - yet. Keep trying. What’s the best approach?? Any guidance is appreciated.
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby mikeinnj » Mon Jul 01, 2019 1:42 pm

My approach was first to read a number of posts to her to soothe her fears and then to let her sit and read after that. After a week or so, she said book it.

Trip 8 or 9 coming up in October.

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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby Bareman » Tue Jul 02, 2019 12:39 pm

During our first visit in 2015, our favorite place to have sex was the Jacuzzi beds. We're olderso we weren't able to do it as much as you but we had another erotic, sensual time this past December at Pearl. Our transformation started in 2007 in St. Martin when we became nudists. We went to HBR in 2014 and liked everything except no PDA much less PDS, not even allowed to put suntan lotion on each others fun parts. Then we went to DRM and made the complete evolution. :D 8) :bj
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby enticing » Sat Aug 10, 2019 11:01 am

Many Thanks for the nice comments here and elsewhere.
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby noblenudes » Tue Aug 20, 2019 10:27 am

StevieB wrote:Awesome trip and very good to know. We are also on our second marriage. 3 year anniversary this summer. Wife loves to wear skimpy bikinis and go topless when possible. We’ve talked about the clothing optional resorts and she’s not too keen on it - yet. Keep trying. What’s the best approach?? Any guidance is appreciated.
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So my method was bringing my wife to Couples San Souci where there is a Prude Beach & a Nude Beach, took her an hour to try the Nude side, never made it to the Prude side... evolved from there to Hidden Beach then to Pearl. Going for 3rd Pearl trip this November to celebrate 30th Anniversary
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby enticing » Mon Jan 13, 2020 9:38 am

Thank you all for all your kind words here and elsewhere about Sharon's adventure story
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby Thrill Seekers » Sun Feb 02, 2020 2:30 am

StevieB wrote:Awesome trip and very good to know. We are also on our second marriage. 3 year anniversary this summer. Wife loves to wear skimpy bikinis and go topless when possible. We’ve talked about the clothing optional resorts and she’s not too keen on it - yet. Keep trying. What’s the best approach?? Any guidance is appreciated.
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Find good trip reports on the forum to show her. Even tripadvisor has good reviews to put her at ease. Tripadvisor might be even better because she will know they are real. I just posted our first timers trip report today. Let her know it really is average people ages 30 to 70 with most being 40 -55, just relaxing and having fun with zero pressure to do anything they're not comfortable doing.

One last thought, let her know it's not about sex. It's about feeling young and care free for a week.

Good luck.
It's worth the effort!

P.S. Let her know most of the avatars people use are not of themselves, so not everyone looks like a super model.
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby CokeMann » Sun Feb 02, 2020 2:37 am

Thrill Seekers wrote:Tripadvisor might be even better because she will know they are real.

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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby Thrill Seekers » Sun Feb 02, 2020 11:14 am

I know my bad.
I just meant more neutral than the forum. I think most of the people on the forum are here because we love it.
I know I do!
Repeat- I LOVE DESIRE and the FORUM!!! :D
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby art lovers » Thu Feb 06, 2020 9:02 am

Loved your first timers report thrill seekers. Really well written and covered so much about Desire that is important. But, have to ask... is YOUR avatar real? Scouts honor now! Real or not, it’s sweet, fun and sexy. One of the best I’ve seen.
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby Explorer79 » Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:29 am

Some of the trip advisor reports are really funny to read through. One of them mentioned their fear of getting eaten by the crocodiles!
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Re: Transformed by Desire, starting Jan. 2019

Postby SteveNMary » Tue Mar 03, 2020 11:11 am

Thanks for all the advise. I agree, just reading the reviews is best to put anyone at ease. Everyone on this forum has been great and honest. What better endorsement can there be. Sounds like we would fit right in with no expectations except to relax and have fun. While our avatar is not us I picked it because it looks just like my better half’s ass and legs, which are as gorgeous as the rest of her.

Hope to see some of you there in Sept 2020 for her birthday.

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