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Hello !

Is there any sign that couples at desire carry if they are in lifestyle ? Just like a lifestyle wristband or something similar ? We believe it will be much more easy to identify people who are interested in lifestyle at the resort. Let us know your thoughts.

It’s usually easier to just ask (or to be asked by others). On any typical visit, I’d say anywhere from one-half to two-thirds of the guests are lifestyle in some way. So, odds are in your favor. Even if they are lifestyle, they may or may not be interested in you, so the conversation has to happen anyway.

nokidclub wrote:It’s usually easier to just ask (or to be asked by others). On any typical visit, I’d say anywhere from one-half to two-thirds of the guests are lifestyle in some way. So, odds are in your favor. Even if they are lifestyle, they may or may not be interested in you, so the conversation has to happen anyway.

aah okay. That makes sense. Just were not really sure that what is the ratio of lifestyle vs non lifestyle crowd at Desire.

Laughloveswing wrote:Hello !

Is there any sign that couples at desire carry if they are in lifestyle ? Just like a lifestyle wristband or something similar ? We believe it will be much more easy to identify people who are interested in lifestyle at the resort. Let us know your thoughts.

Lots wear black rings on left hand.

SouthCarolinaCpl wrote:

Laughloveswing wrote:Hello !

Is there any sign that couples at desire carry if they are in lifestyle ? Just like a lifestyle wristband or something similar ? We believe it will be much more easy to identify people who are interested in lifestyle at the resort. Let us know your thoughts.

Lots wear black rings on left hand.

Actually it’s the right hand second finger - exact opposite of wedding finger that is the “published” practice. Would say though that a black ring on any finger at Desire would likely be a good indicator of being comfortable having the chat.

Either way with a ring or not at all we’ve seen that most guests are understanding and accepting of the concept so simply asking isn’t really going to offend anyone, whether they participate or not. Rather flattering to most people that someone else is willing to expresses attraction.