1st Time attendee...Need Advice..

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1st Time attendee...Need Advice..

Postby bryhooper » Sun Sep 11, 2022 6:51 pm

We are arriving this week 16-19 SEPT 2022...have been to Temptation and got harrassed relentlessly to join their 'members' club...simply put...we are NOT interested in joining any 'club' and do NOT wish to be harrassed by their staff....WHAT is the best way upon arrival to avoid the harrassment, check-in, then hit the pool/jacuzzi?
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Re: 1st Time attendee...Need Advice..

Postby SusanAndDavid » Sun Sep 11, 2022 8:46 pm

Just tell them you’re not interested in the sales pitch. They will ask a couple times but just remain firm. Not a big deal and it will end there.
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Re: 1st Time attendee...Need Advice..

Postby Ejc3md » Mon Sep 12, 2022 8:19 am

We told them that we wanted to see what it was like for a couple of days before deciding and we never saw them again.
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Re: 1st Time attendee...Need Advice..

Postby denise&john » Mon Sep 12, 2022 8:33 am

We are arriving on Wednesday, September 14th -- yeah, just two days from today!!

We have the same concern. We plan to tell them that we are meeting up with a very good couple friend -- and its true. Specifically, "we have several friends that are here right now, they are members, and they will show us around. We will decide after that if we want to learn about any membership."

We are also going to decline any "property tour" or "walk-around" -- we generally know what's there. Instead, we just want to get our bags to our room quickly.

Why? Well, honestly, so we can get naked and get into the jacuzzi as soon as possible. We are arriving between 430 and 500 so we want to enjoy a nice cocktail while lounging with friends and getting into the Desire frame of mind -- all before dinner.
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Re: 1st Time attendee...Need Advice..

Postby Orcowgirl » Tue Sep 13, 2022 1:02 pm

The "staff" will not ever ask you. You will be asked at check in and simply say, "no and means, no", and end it there. There is no presser at all when we go repeatedly all year. No, we still have not bought in.
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Re: 1st Time attendee...Need Advice..

Postby Cheers2US » Wed Sep 14, 2022 5:54 pm

The Temptation sales push is hard. They will ask you everyday if they see you in the lobby. The Desire sales push is minimal. They might ask you when you check in if you are interested, but they do not push. If you say no, they will respect that and leave you alone.

That has been our experience & we've been to Desire about 10 times total.
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