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Hi, we’re considering going to Pearl and was wondering where the most exotic, craziest places are to have sex and when. We’re looking to push some boundaries and would love to know some ideas.

By their rules, the only places allowed are the hot tub, play room, and your room/balcony. We were also told that staff allows most other places unless someone complains. That being said, we watched people have sex late in the day by the pool after everyone had moved on. 2 couples were stopped by staff and 1 was not.

Good intel. At DRM, it wasn’t a problem near the old pool if you were discrete. Good to know about what you observed at Pearl. Would definitely chill the mood if we were to be interrupted by staff - me think that would kill the whole mental vibe for the wife and me to. At DRM, we read the stated and written policy, but the policy in practice was different. Which was good to us. We’re just a fun loving couple who are looking to break loose for a few days away from the everyday life and have some fun b/c you definitely can’t do this in your backyard - we have very nosy neighbors who just love to talk!

Our goal is to find some great crazy places and put them on our bucket list and add to our war stories back at home with your friends. What man doesn’t love to talk about banging his wife on the beach with his friends or woman who talks about stripping naked and going into the hot tub with her husband and making out passionately , and maybe a little insertion - either her girlfriends??

Definitely. I would say there are opportunities for some short, spontaneous activity outside the normal areas. I received some impromptu servicing from a lady outside the lobby bar while waiting for Gaspar to prepare our late night snacks. Otherwise, I would consider slipping some quick fun on the beach, dock, or anywhere else the mood struck. Getting caught and ran off can also be fun in itself and good for a laugh and a story if nothing else.

If you’re insure about by the pool, just ask one of the staff people first. Every time we have done that, we have been able to have sex with friends almost anywhere without any issues.

I’m going to say the beach is a good place. Always our go to at DRM so we’ll check it out.

On one of our trips, our room was on the 2nd floor overlooking the "live" side of the pool. We had sex in the afternoon on our balcony in plain view of everyone below. We found that more erotic than on the jacuzzi beds.

we had sex in the spa and it was fine

Best advise is to get friendly wit the staff. THey'll be happy to let you know when and where everything is a go. They'll even help you find that perfect spot sometimes.

What are your thoughts at Pearl? Do you think staff will stop you and your partner from having fun at the quiet end of the pool?

IrishMark wrote:What are your thoughts at Pearl? Do you think staff will stop you and your partner from having fun at the quiet end of the pool?

Just ask the staff in that area if it’s ok. We do that and have never been told no.

Yeah, I guess you’re right … ask. As I mentally think about it, I wonder, how do you ask? What do you say? Without sounding weird? It’s weird, I’m all good walking around naked and stuff but asking the staff, that’s actually intimidating to me. LOL!

IrishMark wrote:Yeah, I guess you’re right … ask. As I mentally think about it, I wonder, how do you ask? What do you say? Without sounding weird? It’s weird, I’m all good walking around naked and stuff but asking the staff, that’s actually intimidating to me. LOL!

I just flat out ask the security staff “can we have sex here?” And they say it’s OK.

Mark, good question. Maybe just try asking a security guard if they can help you find a good place to play with the Mrs.

I keep saying, people make way too much of what’s allowed or what isn’t. Reality is that unless what you do is pretty outrageous, or another guest complaints (very rare!) nobody will bother you. And if they did - so what, they would just ask you to stop. You’re not going to get extradited or something. It’s an anything goes environment.