Sizes and Shapes!?!?

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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby countrycouple68 » Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:24 pm

This is a great thread. We are 40 somethings and are visiting in June for the first time. Both of us have some reservations of being nude in public. It's reassuring to know that other people share the same anxieties as we do. I guess i will have to lead by example and and leave my swimwear in the room.
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby MandD » Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:41 pm

countrycouple68 wrote:This is a great thread. We are 40 somethings and are visiting in June for the first time. Both of us have some reservations of being nude in public. It's reassuring to know that other people share the same anxieties as we do. I guess i will have to lead by example and and leave my swimwear in the room.




You be naked with no worries 30 minutes after you hit the pool or beach.
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby honeycouple » Wed Apr 23, 2014 4:18 pm

countrycouple68 wrote:This is a great thread. We are 40 somethings and are visiting in June for the first time. Both of us have some reservations of being nude in public. It's reassuring to know that other people share the same anxieties as we do. I guess i will have to lead by example and and leave my swimwear in the room.



Even seasoned veterans to the resort and anyone who goes to nude beaches or clubs in there home state have body issues of one kind or another.
Once I started living life the way I wanted and stopped worrying about what others thought about my lifestyle choices it was an easy transition to go naked in public.
Once the weather home gets above 70 degrees we are hitting the nude beaches and enjoying life clothes free.
At home we can walk freely naked. Some days the neighbors get an eyeful and no one has complained.


I will be hitting the exercise bike and elliptical machine at home a little more just to be a little more fit but I wont go crazy and neither will my GF.
We have baggage just like most REAL people who go naked in public. Its not often you see the perfect fit body outside of magazines.

Once you are naked and engage others in conversation you start to realize that its not a big deal. You start to forget you don't have clothes on.
Everyone wants to have a good time with like minded people.
Being naked outside with others is just a bonus.

You will either love it or hate it. Most that show up to Desire with no prior public nudity usually love it and will talk with others about planning there next trip.
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby countrycouple68 » Thu Apr 24, 2014 5:23 pm

honeycouple wrote:
countrycouple68 wrote:This is a great thread. We are 40 somethings and are visiting in June for the first time. Both of us have some reservations of being nude in public. It's reassuring to know that other people share the same anxieties as we do. I guess i will have to lead by example and and leave my swimwear in the room.



Even seasoned veterans to the resort and anyone who goes to nude beaches or clubs in there home state have body issues of one kind or another.
Once I started living life the way I wanted and stopped worrying about what others thought about my lifestyle choices it was an easy transition to go naked in public.
Once the weather home gets above 70 degrees we are hitting the nude beaches and enjoying life clothes free.
At home we can walk freely naked. Some days the neighbors get an eyeful and no one has complained.


I will be hitting the exercise bike and elliptical machine at home a little more just to be a little more fit but I wont go crazy and neither will my GF.
We have baggage just like most REAL people who go naked in public. Its not often you see the perfect fit body outside of magazines.

Once you are naked and engage others in conversation you start to realize that its not a big deal. You start to forget you don't have clothes on.
Everyone wants to have a good time with like minded people.
Being naked outside with others is just a bonus.

You will either love it or hate it. Most that show up to Desire with no prior public nudity usually love it and will talk with others about planning there next trip.


If we can conquer the first days nerves I'm sure we can have a good time. We have chosen to stay for 3 nights, just to sample the place. I have read all the fantastic reviews about Desire and plucked up the courage to try it ourselves. Lets just hope it lives up to our expectations.
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby klasdude » Fri Apr 25, 2014 10:33 am

I've read all of the above. My wife had breast reduction surgery and is slightly overweight. We took our first trip to a C/O resort over this past Thanksgiving. We went all out and went to Hedo on our first trip. At first, she felt awkward. By the end of the trip, she got so much attention, it really gave her a LOT more self confidence. Nobody is going to judge because of this or that. One thing EVERYBODY realizes at a C/O resort, without clothes NOBODY has a perfect body. As somebody else said, they are all unique in their own way. Go, have fun, feel and BE sexy...because ALL women are. Tell her Klas said "work it baby!!!". lol Enjoy yourselves.
BTW, at the end of the week, we both said it was our BEST vacation ever and we've been on a bunch. Not into the lifestyle and played very little but the people and the feeling of liberation is awesome.
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby honeycouple » Fri Apr 25, 2014 11:26 am

countrycouple68 wrote:If we can conquer the first days nerves I'm sure we can have a good time. We have chosen to stay for 3 nights, just to sample the place. I have read all the fantastic reviews about Desire and plucked up the courage to try it ourselves. Lets just hope it lives up to our expectations.

By the end of the 4days/3 nights you will either be running to the getaway van to make your escape or dreading the fact you have to leave.
Im pretty sure you will dread leaving and will be making plans to come back for a longer stay.
Day 1 is usually the toughest part for newbies. Being naked in front of others is not part of our every day life. At least not many of us. Most keep the swim suit/bathing suit on in the morning
By mid afternoon you should start to relax and realize people are just people having a good time. The men usually drop the shorts and some women will go topless.
Day 2: pretty relaxed, men are typically the first to throw caution to the wind and go for all nude all day. The women, if you didnt go topless day 1 usually day 2 the will.
Day 3 you walk out of the room nude, head to the pool and enjoy the day. YOu realize its no big deal

Nude isnt sex!
Nude is NOT Pornography!
Nude is Natural!
Nude is fun!
Nude socializing is just socializing with great people!

We are reduced to our most natural state uncensored and untainted.
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby countrycouple68 » Fri Apr 25, 2014 4:43 pm

Thanks for your advice and kind words gentlemen. ..and yes hoping to book for 2015!
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby honeycouple » Tue Jun 03, 2014 4:08 pm

“I don't care if you're black, white, straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian, short, tall, fat, skinny, rich or poor. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. Simple as that." ― Eminem

Simple and easy breakdown!
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby Barerunners » Tue Jun 03, 2014 4:53 pm

Honeycouple pretty much sums it it all up :L :L :L
Ok, I'll do that....
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby unicpl » Wed Jun 18, 2014 11:14 am

its going to be our first time there, I haven't read nothing about the size of the "man"? im not afraid to being nude but you never know what to expect.
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Re: Sizes and Shapes!?!?

Postby honeycouple » Wed Jun 18, 2014 11:38 am

unicpl wrote:its going to be our first time there, I haven't read nothing about the size of the "man"? im not afraid to being nude but you never know what to expect.



Are you referring to penis size? If so, some men are growers and some men are showers.
We are frequent visitors to a nude beach and you see all shapes and sizes.
Men worry about this more then women.
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