Swingers month /we aren’t

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Swingers month /we aren’t

Postby Jdbhak » Sat Jan 13, 2018 5:12 am

We are first timer non life stylers with a couple free days on this trip. We booked two nights not knowing it was swingers month Are there any big differences during January at DRM and will we be comfortable? Trying to add a little spice to great relationship
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Re: Swingers month /we aren’t

Postby desireaddict » Sat Jan 13, 2018 11:37 am

We to DRM in January a couple of years ago as we had plans that prevented us taking our customary December trip. We saw little difference in the crowd, but the special events (massage classes, etc) were a lot of fun!
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Re: Swingers month /we aren’t

Postby Whoneedssunscreencpl » Sun Jan 14, 2018 7:52 pm

We've been there many different times of the year. Did not really notice a difference during International Swingers month, to be honest. Maybe a few more folks there from other countries than we typically have seen but I think if you are comfortable with the resort's concept as a whole, you'll be fine!
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Re: Swingers month /we aren’t

Postby shore128 » Mon Jan 15, 2018 10:55 am

We've been to both Pearl and RM during January and during other months. Agree that it really isn't any different than other months. Its basically just marketing.
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Re: Swingers month /we aren’t

Postby Yeipi » Mon Jan 15, 2018 6:12 pm

We are not swingers either and chose to go in January for the past few trips because sex was allowed in other places and not just the Playroom and the jacuzzi beds. So it was nice to be away from the crowd and play together without being bothered by security :lol:

And things were normal and fun. Nothing crazy :mrgreen:
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Re: Swingers month /we aren’t

Postby Lkncouple » Tue Jan 16, 2018 10:36 am

Jdbhak wrote:We are first timer non life stylers with a couple free days on this trip. We booked two nights not knowing it was swingers month Are there any big differences during January at DRM and will we be comfortable? Trying to add a little spice to great relationship


Jdbhak, We are not in the lifestyle and have been to Desire 4 times. 2 of them in January. The only thing really different is that they sometimes have guest hosts that teach workshops in the disco. They are great, we have been to workshops on techniques on pleasing a woman, pleasing a man and Introduction to S&M. There are lots of non-lifetylers down there.

They only time we really felt out of place was Halloween. It was pretty crazy and we felt like we were the only non-lifestylers there.
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Re: Swingers month /we aren’t

Postby Jdbhak » Fri Jan 19, 2018 9:55 am

Well our two night stay is over and nothing but good things to say about the staff and the resort. The statements that not much different during January was refuted by the regulars that we met. We had a great time and to each his own but (more my wife) probably didn’t need to see the full on multi position sex on the pool chair front and center at 11am. During the day several others also. Also in the disco on the back couches. . Again, we were told by veterans that that was very unusual and wouldn’t be allowed other months and they could have done without it also. HOWEVER couldn’t have been more pleasantly surprised with how nice everyone was at all times. No judgement on us as non participatants and met very nice people that put us at ease without any pressure to “do anything” We were asked to the late night jacuzzi several times but chose not to more out of running out of gas than anything else. Hopefully she will let us try again on a different month sometime in the future. It DID spice up our action as planned !!!!!!
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