HI- my husband and I are traveling to Desire RM. Searched forums but have some questions I couldn't finds answers to:
We want to eat in nice restaurant first night - how (or do we need to) maker dinner reservations in advance (we arrive 4:30 pm ish)??? Or do we take our chances? We don't typically like buffets (lunch yes) but dinner we plan to dress like we can't at home (and like the idea of a more romantic setting).
Do couples ever dine together?
What happens at the first jacuzzi meat and greet? I mean "MEET" (my mind is already there)… It looks like it is every day at 4:00. Is it an automatic penis meet pussy immediately (if you want?) Or is it more casual talk at that point? We've been to one nude beach before and we'll be naked the moment we leave our room. No time to waste - we only have 6 nights.
We have costumes for themes and we (well I) have slutty/low cut, side cut out dresses for dinner-fancy stuff. Fancy stuff and more revealing for the costume themes. Heard it is fun to get into it and we are having a blast getting our theme outfits together (as well as dinner attire-clothes we would never wear here at home).
What is the best time to eat dinner so that we can see some of the lobby show and head to disco? Thought the lobby show was tame til I read the post that they undressed a man on stage to his birthday suit. We are up for it. Can't wait to use the "red room" but heard of girls being banged and fingered in the disco itself???
We are early birds typcailly but if we are out and the party is rolling we are good - it is lag time that makes us start to yawn.
What if I am into a girl but not her guy? Is it polite to say "I just wanna be with your wife and our husbands can watch"? I'm not a goddess and hubby isnt Bratt Pitt but we can hold our own and we are newbies and I only really get turned on with someone I feel some chemistry with. We are afraid he'll like her but not him, or I'll like him but not her etc... so many combinations!
We heard the beach was off limits for nudity or sex because other people (and families) walk the beach. But them we read posts stating the opposite...??? We live in a beach town so I'm more geared towrads the pool (and of course jacuzzi) but whatever... we are comfortable wherever.
We have talked a bit and then a bit more and then more. We are strong, in love and celebrating 16 years of great marriage-just wanting to experiment now - I'm definitely bi-curious, but now hubby wants to see me with another man too - says its a huge turn on to see another man find me attractive (I hope I feel the same!). Opted NOT to do erotic massage as we think we can get that for free with another couple at jacuzzi---thoughts?
We started off just him wanting to see me with another girl. so we visited a strip club and alas $300 dollars later I was fingering and making out with 2 girls while hubby watched. The the conversations began and somehow we got to the point where we started off ONLY soft LS. Then talking more we thought "what the hell" When in Rome.... We are excited for theis new (physical) experience and we are positive it will make our bond stronger. - Just waiting for the trip we have become sex animnals at home!! The anticipation is overly exciting.
I recently lost a lot of weight and find my alcohol consumption needed to be curtailed (I could drink like a fish) - now if I go over the top, the whole night is a blur and I DON'T want that - I want to remember it all! So, thats one thing I have to watch - any recomendations for a drink I can sip all day where I'll still be able to walk in high heels to dinner? Also worried about drinking the water/ice - EVERY time we have been to Cancum at least a day usually 2 are spent on the toilet by BOTH of us.
We have a typical garden view room - do we get bottled water and a fridge with freezer in the room?
So... I think I'll have more questions, but that is it for now.
Looking forward for some insight and also is anyone else traveling end of Sept? We'll be there 9/26-10/2.
TY~!!!!