Me and my wife will be traveling to Desire in October and the onus of making sure that the trip is a truly fun filled and exciting one is completely on me. So as a first timer I am nervous and wanting to check here if any one has had any bad memories, like rude comments on body shapes / sizes , race (we are mixed) , any unwanted physical grabbing from behind? cause the theme is drenched in sexuality and alcohol is included, but hope everyone stays in limits, until approached respectfully.
Really asking the repeat women , if they feel safe or there is any hints of unwanted / rude comments or just outright rude physical moronic behavior from other men or women. I understand that majority of the comments are about how fun and wonderful everything is, but just want to ensure that there is not that one off rude experience that some women or men felt like they could have erased from their memory. I apologize upfront as my concern post is not the most entertaining, but my wife is a survivor and I would hate to be the one to bring her into an environment that might be present the risk of being mistreated.
Just a little info on us, I love my wife a lot, (I know, all the men here do ...which is great!) and i want mine to have the best time of her life. She loves costumes and dress up and so do I. She is also a huge fan of lady Gaga, and during her concerts she used to dress up , but the unnecessary stares and catcalls on the walk up to the concert from our hotel, in her costume, made it a little annoying for me. I know she ignores them and just does her thing, but I want to be sure that such unwanted reactions aren’t a part of the package @ Desire Pearl. Also I understand that in the scenario I mentioned it’s two different worlds of people, one set in concert mode and the other, trying to go about normal survival mode and in between there is a small group of morons that ruin it for all. So just asking humbly if any husbands felt that they had any concerns or negative experiences that they might not have their wives go through or ladies , please respond if you felt like you could have had a great time if not for that annoying or rude behavior/ comment.
Thank you all for your time and thoughts. Apologize about any typos etc.