My wife and I have been all over these forums for the last couple of months and they are so informative! We haven’t booked yet, but are trying to decide on the best time to lock in to Pearl. We’ve been happily married for seven years and are not into the LS. We’ve never visited a nude resort or anything similar.
We’re both in our late 30’s. We’ve wanted for years to find a place that we could have sex and perform other acts in public, as the thought of being watched is thrilling. We are also intrigued by the idea of watching others. Desire looks to be a dream come true!
However, never being in such an environment, we have obviously had many discussions on very real possibilities and unknowns. We’ve read countless reviews stating body image is of no concern once you’re there and there are individuals of all shapes and sizes. My wife is very petite and thus very small chested. Basically nonexistent. I adore her perfect, perky small breasts and what they did for our two children and think she’s the sexiest thing on earth and can’t wait to show her off! However, she unfortunately can be insecure about them at times and feels she is “not womanly”. I want her to be comfortable as this trip is for us to connect, enjoy time away, and most importantly, relax (and have a whole lot of sexy fun with each other - I’m not kidding, we can’t wait to have unlimited play time!)
My question is this: we have seen numerous posts about how over half of the woman that frequent the resort have had their breasts done in some way or another. While I’d hope she would be fine with this, we are very aware of the fact that until we are there, we don’t know what our comfort or security levels will be. Have any women faced this concern? Not of being judged, but feeling inadequate (even though she has NO reason to, I can not control her body image, as she’s been emotionally abused over her body in the past - she’s come a long way though)? If you thought you would feel that way and found that to be unwarranted once there, what specifically helped?
If we do find she is overwhelmed by all the nudity in her face, is there opportunity to sort of separate ourselves from it and enjoy at least a little private time outside of our room? I hope none of this comes across as shallow or the wrong way. As I’ve said, I think my wife is the sexiest woman alive and when that woman lets loose and is comfortable, she’s a goddess. But she can be shy too and the last thing I want is for her to be uncomfortable and then be “stuck” in such a small space. She’s so excited over the thought of being seen and I do believe we will see sides of each other we’ve never seen before in such an environment, but we have to be open to all possibilities before taking such a leap. I personally think it will help her feel as sexy as she is!