jbarnes89 wrote:Hello,
My wife and I will be coming for a few days as first timers in mid March and was just curious about the theme nights. Sounds like everyone kind of heads in late afternoon after the pool fun and gets ready for dinner? Do we go to dinner dressed as theme or is that more for after dinner? Wasn’t sure what to expect for dinner and didn’t want to show up dressed out of place. This is our first visit to a clothing optional resort and we are excited. Also, do women feel out of place if they are not topless. My wife is a little hesitant on that side of things for whatever reason so I don’t want her to feel forced to until she is ready. Thanks!!
Hello!
There is no pressure to do anything at Desire. Many, if not most, women will be topless; many will be completely clothesless at the pool and beach areas. But again, there is no pressure. I (Mrs Cheers) was also hesitant on our first visit, but soon after (like 15 minutes LOL) I felt very comfortable shedding the clothes. It is surprisingly liberating and now, the husband and I always look forward to these trips.
As for the theme nights, in the past, I have dressed up for the themes and went down to dinner dressed as such. But I have seen others dress for dinner, then go back to their rooms to change for the theme nights. I might do it this way too on the next trip, just so I'm not having dinner while wearing lingerie or a neon frock.
- Mrs Cheers